ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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her messages have said . . she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . even though she does know why and just stupid little things to try to get me to respond . . . like u said u would be there for me and stuff like that
2006-11-08 05:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!! she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
2006-11-08 06:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like she wants her cake and to be able to eat it too. She has another guy but wants to keep you on the hook just in case it doesn't work out, she can come back to you.
Kick her to the curb and move on. There is someone out there who will appreicate you and respect you. Tell her that she already made her choice and now she can just live with it. She can't have it both ways. Besides if you took her back, who is to say that she wouldn't do the same thing to you again. Think about it............Good Luck!!
2006-11-08 05:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but in the past I have done this one. She doesn't want to be with you. I know this for a fact because it is usually harder for a girl to breakup with someone they really want to be with so when they do it means they have lost interest. the reason she keeps texting and calling you is because she wants to hang on to you for attention reasons. She wants your attention. She knows you care about her and that makes her self esteem rise. That's why she is dangling you along. Your best bet is to tell her it is completely over and change your number. She will keep dangling you for as long as you let her. I did it to the poor guy for 2 years.
2006-11-08 05:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is stringing you along. She's probably wanting to keep you in the background in case this other guy doesn't work out. You don't need the drama - find a new g/f and be happy. Change you phone # and move on.
2006-11-08 05:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound more like she wants to rub your nose in her new relationship. Continue to ignore the girl or better yet block her email from reaching you. Find someone more mature and enjoy your new relationship. If she really cared about maintaining a friendship with you she would not be with someone who she has to know you hate.
2006-11-08 05:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just move on with your life. Obviously she didn't think that you were good enough for her before so why now. Plus the fact that she is calling you when she is still with that guy. That says alot all by itself. Go find you a real woman and move on!!!!
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-08 05:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by teresasays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still likes you and you have done something to hurt her and she is trying to get back at you for whatever reason sounds to me like she wants you back
2006-11-08 05:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by lil_cokena07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't respond to her messages. She clearly made up her mind who she wanted to be with. And it sounds like she's wanting to have her cake and eat it too. You deserve better. Her loss.
2006-11-08 05:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't answer any of her texts, or phone calls. she'll get the hint at some point. it takes time for some of us to get the hint.
2006-11-08 05:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked this question like 100 times! the answer i gave u last time was that she is immature. she wants what she dosent have. thats all forget her.
2006-11-08 05:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋