2006-11-08 05:05:08 · 38 answers · asked by Nisha the Diva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The plain truth is, it is really more difficult to manage just one woman or man! One has to work hard in order to keep even a truly loving relationship alive.
2006-11-08 05:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Njihem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) It shouldn't hard to be faithful to someone at all.
2) If you really love them there shouldn't be any problems with being faithful. I mean if you really love them why would you want to be with anyone else?
3) If you can't be faithful then you don't belong in relationships.
2006-11-08 05:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Elisabeth R 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is a good question. My cheating ex wife told me on the night that she said she was out with a friend that she never loved me and that she wondered why we even got married. But after the divorce she told me a flip flop, she said that she loved me but could not provide for her. What in the h-ll does that mean? It means her making $26 an hour as a nurse (40 hour weekends) and $36 an hour as a teacher of nursing (3 days a week) and me working at Mid-States Ford as a shipping clerk making 11.40 an hour was not good enough to provide for her. For eleven years I kept changing jobs because she wanted more and more money out of me. She bought a new mini van every year, we had a 130,000 dollar house, three wonderful kids, and two cats and one dog. And her parents are of great wealth also. Funny thing, her I almost wanted her cousin who was older and poorer! D-m! I just missed out I guess! But It all has to do with what the goals of your mate is and if it changes year to year like it did with my cheating ex wife! I hope this helps.
2006-11-08 05:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you cannot be anything but faithful to them. If it is too difficult to stay faithful, then you only believe yourself to be in love and there is really no substance to it. Long lasting relationships are based on love, caring and trust.
2006-11-08 05:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by HGS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be in love with someone and not be faithful. Just because you lust after a differ ant person does not mean you are not in love with the one you have spend yrs with.
2006-11-08 05:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by lewbislew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for many adult human beings its not a hard thing to do. All it calls for is some common decency and an iota of self control and will power. many people play with the defintion of being faithful, this is ok as long as both parties involved understand and abide by how they work that out.
2006-11-08 05:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by rand a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love them it's not hard to be faithful... it just comes naturally.
2006-11-08 05:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by MissJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it is hard to be faithful to someone who you truly love. Your love for them should make it almost impossible for you to be willing to hurt them in such a way. Selfish people or people who only love themselves think they can get away with or explain it away. If you truly love someone you first stop and think if what you are doing or about to be doing will hurt the person whom you love or you put yourself in their place and say to yourself. "If they were doing this to me would I be happy about it?" If you are truly in love you have empathy for the person. This is not to say temptations will not come your way but, you should be able to better deal with them.
2006-11-08 05:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you TRULY love them, then it isn't hard. If you call it love then most likely it's lust and you really don't love them. And it's hard because you are tempted or you feel let down because once you know them then they are not what you expected them to be. That's what leads to cheating, or is she bothers you and calls you frequently asking you were you have been.
2006-11-08 05:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question not hard to be faithful if you really do love them
2006-11-08 05:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋