I'm a big girl and its hard to find a boyfriends what do i do?

Question

yea i'm a big girl and its hard but i try my best. i just want to find a guy that will love me for who i am. i get a lot of guys that take one look at me and they laugh what do i do.

Answer 1

losing some weight and getting into shape is a long term solution, but believe me, there are lots of slim girls that are no better off finding a man. so being slim wont automatically solve your problem by itself

what i find attractive in a woman is a nice sense of style (how they dress and hairstyle), how well they take care of their bodies, and how social they are. dont be needy and desperate, but be fun and meet people. good luck

Answer 2

Hi *Maggie* *,

I know that it's very difficult to lose weight, but the fact is that this is what you need to do to meet more people. Guys are very visually oriented and are attracted to a skinnier girl. You don't have to be a walking skeleton or anything like that, but just a regular figure will go a long way. There are guys who are "Chubby chasers" but they are few and far between.

I've had problems with weight too, but the best results that I've had was to cut way back on my carbohydrate intake (I know, and I love tortilla chips too) and to get more active. What ever activity that you like doing that gets your heart rate up can be great, as long as you do it every day. Soon, if you skip a day, you won't even feel right.

I started riding the stationary bike, slow at first for only a few minutes a day. I now throw in a DVD and zone out on the TV while I'm peddling my @ss off and the 45 minutes a day goes by quickly and painlessly. You can go to Goodwill Industries and buy used exercise equipment for real cheap. You'll be losing weight in no time.

I hope that this helps. Sorry. I wish you the best of luck.

--Rick

Answer 3

Nobody worth their salt should laugh at anyone.

I was 50 kgs overweight and here in China!!!! Of course most people in CHina are thin.

So, I guess it was the pictures I took of myself that really did it. Especially without a shirt on. I told myself I had to do something but I really didn't like excercise. I didn't have a beer belly but a juice belly! hehe 3-5 gallons of juice a week will do that. hehe

So, I decided to follow the Chinese philosophy...
Eat like an Emperor for breakfast
Eat like a Worker for Lunch
Eat like a Peasant for Dinner

But, I also changed my juices to carrot and tomato - less sugar. and drank less of them.

Remember Don't eat anything late - in fact the earlier you stop eating the better. If you get hungry drink low fat milk. I know for 2 days I thought it was water - yuck. But by end of 2nd day - great. Now regular milk tastes like cream.

After 1 year I lost 40 Kgs. I am having trouble losing last 10kgs though.

Good luck - but remember you need to be happy with yourself before you can make a man happy. If you always complain that you are too fat then he will start thinking it too.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Well maggie, I suggest maybe changing your style and try working out a couple times a week on your free time, guys like to laugh alot too, so try to find some good comedy to listen to to whip you into shape!

-Ryan

Answer 5

It's hard...I am looking for a girl who has just a nice personality.

A good relationship is founded by a common root of respect in terms of personality. Yep, love is tough.


http://www.freewebs.com/infosource100/love1.html

Answer 6

You just need to have confidence in yourself and you will see a change in the men around you. Good Luck.

Answer 7

You aren't going to find them, they have to find you!