I'm 20, in college and I have absolutly no friends whatsoever. There's this girl I like and I talk to her sometimes but I think she has a boyfriend. I want to ask if she does but I just can't, way too shy. Everytime I sit down and look at my life I get real sad and depressed. Right now it's real bad, and I feel like garbage. What to do? What to do?
2006-11-08 05:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok accept the fact that u don't have any friends. Now try to find out why can't u make friends. Shyness could be one big reason. Analyse why u feel shy.....and then try to overcome it.
Remember no person is inferior or superior, each one of us is unique. U R UNIQUE. Learn to smile because a smile has the power to attract even a complete stranger...........now, now i asked u to smile, not to GRINNNN.
2006-11-08 05:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to get off your A$$ and go out and have a good time. Go meet new people make friends. You really need to get over your shyness now. What are you going to do in the real world if you are shy, how can you hold down a job if you are shy. If you really like this girl you need to just ask her to hang out sometime and if she does have a boyfriend then you will find someone else. Good Luck.
2006-11-08 05:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all embrace the college environment you are in... every campus has lots of activity going on and you cannot hide in your room forever, go to a free concert, hang out at the student union building, the library any where that people congregate... chances are that you will start seeing a lot of the same people over and over again. As for this girl use her as a contact...say something like "since I'm new to campus I'm not sure where the fun stuff is going on-where do you and your boyfriend or friends hang out" that way you will know if she is seeing someone and get the name of a good place to go... don't be bummed out if she is seeing someone all hot girls hang out with other hot girls so chances are one of her friends is single.
2006-11-08 05:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you healthy?? If so stop complaining. There are so many people in the world that won't live thru the day that are your age and would love to be in your shoes. Your only 20 years old and you have your entire life ahead of you. Get out and experience life. Ask the girl you like out on a date and if she says she is already dating someone than move on. Lots of fish in the sea.
Keep your chin up..... life is good and a gift from GOD.
2006-11-08 05:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be yourself and don't be too shy to talk to people because if you do then you will end up more sad because you have no one. I believe that you should go to a party on your campus and get to know some people there. Have the courage to talk someone. Oh and about the girl, just ask her there is nothing to lose and if she asks you why then tell her "Oh because I wanted to hang out with you on the weekend and I thought that maybe your boyfriend might get mad." If you are still lonely, you can talk to me, if you want. =) GOOD LUCK and GET THE GIRL
2006-11-08 05:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and enjoy life. Don't wallow in your misery. Find things to do that make you happy and do them. Join a community group. They are good to meet new people AND to help out the community. Just stay active. And, be brave and ask her if she has a boyfriend! That's the only way that you will know for sure. Hope you feel better soon.
2006-11-08 05:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you drive? if you do, get yourself out there. go places...or you can even meet some people online. =) no harm in that...lots of people do it. myspace has worked for many of my friends...some even found relationships on there and their going strong. sounds silly i know but it worked for them...who knows maybe for you too. i actually met a few friends there and we're all still really great friends. i'm sorry u feel sad and depressed. must be really tough to have no friends. as for the girl...just simply ask her if she has a bf...no harm in that. most of us females get asked that question all the time and we don't think of you guys any less. it's just a simple question. =) maybe u can even be friends w/ her and she can introduce u to friends.
2006-11-08 05:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a strip club. I know this sounds crazy, but i used to be just as shy as you. Then i worked at a strip club. Now im more out going and have many really good friends. I dont strip anymore but im not shy to talk to strangers about anything.
2006-11-08 05:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by luckypenny5295 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋