I just don’t understand people…why does everyone have to make my life so difficult?

Question

Aren’t I the one that’s supposed to make my life complicated?

Its like I have lost total control and everyone else has taken over! I have no aspiration or enthusiasm towards anything I am involved in!

Does anyone feel like this, how do you deal with it?

Answer 1

Yea..unfortunately i know exactly how you feel. I think most people feel this way at one point or another. It's a terribly easy slump to get into, but now that you are fed up with it start making some changes. Start practicing saying no to people sometimes and giving yourself a littlle time for yourself. It's hard to be a good friend or partner to anyone if your all used up. Unfortunately though it's easy to get into a pattern of just saying ok and going with everyone else's flow! Think of things you enjoy doing and set aside some time to do them... it will go a long way in helping you get back some energy and re-centering yourself. Good Luck and lotsa luv!

Answer 2

boo funking hoo, cry me a freaking river...... DEAL WITH IT, that is how you deal with it, get over it no one is picking on you to make your life hell, that is this thing called life, if you lost control then its cuz you have with your life, not cuz of other ppl, every one has hardships, they have prob, bills, kids, wifes, gf, hubbys bfs, work, mom, dad, bro, sis......no one can tell you "how" do deal with life, you need to fig that out on your own, if a friend is not being a friend then they are not a friend stop talking to them if you are unhappy with your job fine a new one, if your bf or gf is being mean and do'nt treat you right dump there arss, i've know ppl that have just got up and moved out of the state to change there life and get away sure sounds like running but if it works out for the better then y is that running ist just a change

Answer 3

hey that's how life is! on my way to work today- some idiot was coming so fast behind me when i slowed down he hit my rear bumper and took of. I couldn't even take his license place number down. I wa pissedf or a while bit oh well- i'm stuck with the prolblem to fix my car now

Answer 4

You maybe going through a phase in your life where you are very sensitive, and you can take a wierd look or a sarcastic comment very seriously, I suggest taking time out by yourself and **** everybody else until you find what you need to find to be better dude.

-Ryan

Answer 5

You need to focus on YOU! Stop worrying about others and do things to make yourself feel good. Only you can make yourself happy. And only you can let others bring you down. Do not give them that power. You have that power to control your life and what happens. Good Luck.

Answer 6

I have, but if you believe in god, thank him for it, if you don't, just be thankful that it happened, because its going to make you stronger unless it breaks you, but when I feel that way, I just sit down and think of my problems, think of how i can change em, and if I can't its just that "Oh well, the past is in the past" feeling comes upon me and I keep going on with my life and do something that I enjoy and keep it off my mind. But if you can't get it off your mind then just deal or speak on it, and once you speak on it, keep your foot down and if they wanna keep tearing you down ignore it.

-Hope this helps!

Answer 7

Other people make your life difficult because you allow them to.
Only you can change your outlook on life. Pray. I promise you it'll be worth it.

Answer 8

this is why you need to think for your self and don't worry about what people say because this is your life. maybe you need some time to your self to get your thoughts together

Answer 9

ITs not them its you! Stop being such a big baby!