2006-11-08 04:54:08 · 17 answers · asked by her 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you may have left something out, here...
Unless you're really shallow, you won't dump him just because he had a child with someone else before he met you. Now, if he lied to you about the kid or the baby's mother, that's something different!
Make sure that whatever decision you make is based on HIM and your relationship with HIM, not on the simple fact that a baby is now also involved.
2006-11-08 05:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he let you know before you two got together, then you should stay with him. If you really do like the guy. If he didn't then I say that you dump him, because he doesn't trust you well enough to tell you everything.
2006-11-08 04:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset that I wasn't told. The best thing you can do is look for someone who doesn't have kids. There are so many things that go into a man with kids, another women that is always going to be there and nothing you do will ever be good enough for the child. I would move on and get someone with no children.
2006-11-08 05:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you right and spend time with you. Why would you want to dump him? Now if he cheated on you and got a girl pregnant then go ahead an dump him.
2006-11-08 05:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if want baby mama drama or not. Some times the babies mom will be cool with everything and sometimes she wont. But if you really like him then you will give it a shot. Good Luck.
2006-11-08 04:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by princessaranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. it doesn't say much about his family values if he has a baby and isn't married to the mother-- or his safe sex practices. I tried it once, but chose never to date men with kids; I wanted my own man and family, not the broken pieces of some other woman's man and kids.
2006-11-08 04:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him for the same reasons you were attracted to him in the first place... sometimes things happen and it makes us better people give him the benefit of the doubt until he proves otherwise.
2006-11-08 05:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love that baby no matter what... It is not the childs fault and he didn't ask to be brought into this world. If you love your boyfriend then you will love his child also. Take him and be good to him... we need more love in the world.
2006-11-08 04:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by Alisha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys have kids already. Especially around my age and older. If he has a kid and is being a good father then you should be happy he is committed to his child. Family guys are not easy to find..
2006-11-08 04:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't take it out on the baby...its not the baby's fault that his daddy screwed up.......if you can't handle this you need to leave....no one has the right to separate a father from his child.
2006-11-08 04:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋