He wanted me to change, and I told him I was going to and be nicer not so argumentative and listen to him when he tells me to do something. He said I was bing mean when I said 'move over!' when he was in my bed spot. He moved but not enough so I said 'scoot over more goodness!'. He moved on to want to have sex and I refused so he said I was being mean. I was not being mean and he kicked me out of our house. When I went back to get my stuff, he was being really mean with me and hwen I simply asked for a phone number form my cell phone which he paid for, he refused knowing I neede it for school and I wanted it badly. I punched him for being so mean with me and we started cursing at eachother. It has been five days and he is still treating me like ****, and telling everyone that i hit him and not why. Was I wrong, because i know he has said to me that if I ever hit him, he will leave me. I thought our love was strong. I want to know if there's still a chance for us ever.
2006-11-08 04:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by Mari S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No chance sorry to say. You need to go get anger management help..otherwise you'll end up punching other guys too. I agree that he was mean to not let you have the fone number u wanted...and throwing you out because you didn't want sex...that's just silly...anyway...those were his excuses to get rid of you...he does not want to be with you period.
2006-11-08 04:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hitting someone, whether it be the man hitting the women or the women hitting the man....IS WRONG! no on should ever lay their hands on their partner ((in that way)).....but things do get hectic in relationships....arguments start,then they get real heated up, then someon loses it and throws that punch!...i have done it before, I am in a 4 years+ relationship now, and we have had NUMEROUS fights!!! and they have gotten physical before...not very often but it happens...all peopl are different! if your boyfrind was one of those people who have a very strong feeling about hitting or getting hit than... sorry to say this but he may not come back! i know form experience, whatever physical fight i have gotten into with my boyfriend has never made our relationship better or stronger, but we got over it!....it was something that never should have happened but it did,,,its called forgiveness...your man should grow up and realize that he was treating you like crap too, and you got frustrated, didnt think and layed one on him! oh well.....we are all human and im sure if you look back at that moment, you probably regret doing that, but you cant change it. all you can do is apologize! if he cant accept it, than maybe its just time to let go...i know that there is nothing easy about letting go...but the hard times will pass....you just need to think about whether he will ever truely forgive you for it, or will he ALWAYS try to go back and shove it in your face that you hit him?? just like he's doing now, running around and telling everyone,,(annd of course not the complete story and situation)....it sounds to me sweetie that your man needs to grow up...and maybe you need to look for someone more mature,,and reasonable! good luck with everything! just follow your heart....
2006-11-08 04:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no excuse in the world, to hit someone.
You need to move on. It doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship if you guys are arguing and calling each other mean, acting like kids.
2006-11-08 04:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wont get back at you but he will document it
you never hit i dont understand what is up with all this glorification of violence
It probably is over per se -if there is a chance you need to know never to hit .to hit your loved one is wrong .also get some counseling .Good Luck i wish you well
2006-11-08 05:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he said if you ever hit him, he would leave- he left you with a choice. I think subconciously you made that choice, now live with it. Sounds like a pretty unhealthy relationship anyway.
2006-11-08 04:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just lost one.He ain't coming back.I don't care how mad you get if you hit me it's over.You just lucky he didn't hit you back.
2006-11-08 05:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋