i was with this lad for about 3 and a half months we broke up at the weekend,we had teh best few months ever and we both really enjoyed it,but i got sick of him been protevted and stuff so asked for a break.it didnt wrk he didnt wnt 1.he new i was getting sick of things as i thought we were moning to fast so i told him.on sataday we had a boig argument and then sunday he rang me saying his ex was 7 month pregnant and wanted to be there for the kid.i new she was pregnant but hed always said he didnt wnat nething to do with it,so i was shocked,then his ex rang me sayoing they were going to make a go of it for the babys sake so i said fair dos hope all goes well for them both.
that was all on sunday i rang him on monday and his fone was off,i left a meassage but it is still of,i dont no wetger she told him he has to stop talking to me or cos he cant aver to see pics of us together and delete txts etc.i feel a bit down cos weve uddenly just stopped tlkin.what should i do.??
2006-11-08 04:42:06 · 15 answers · asked by bex j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i no he will be bothered but i dont no wether to just move on or wait for him to get in touch cos i no he will.
2006-11-08 04:42:50 · update #1
im only 15 so lay of he run away from his gf when he found out she was pregnant he ran away frm me cos i said i wnated a break hell just keep running but hes old enough to no he has responsibilitys.im not love sick just miss talking to him.
2006-11-08 05:10:02 · update #2
sweetie,
listen its best for you to move on because in the long run if he does get with you there is gonna be a lot of (baby- momma -drama) . and you deserve better, believe me there is someone out there that is meant for you and will love you like your supposed to be love dont waist your time on him let him go and be with his child and girl.
you can do better..
good luck
2006-11-08 04:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on, what r u waitin for????are u totally lovesick?look u r nt a doormat and just anyone cant hurt u like this.just move on and i am sure u r gonna get sumone worthy of u.a person who leaves u for another woman no matter why just cant be considered.he broke up this time and how d u know he wont do it again if u r back together.so i wud suggest u move on!!!there are so many things in life!high time u thought abt urself and gave urself sum time!!i think u deserve sum1 better much much better.take care.hope i cud help!
2006-11-08 12:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by diya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him love. It sounds as though you were his bit of comfort food while his ex wasn't able (or didn't want) to provide. Take a deep breath, read it again and you'll know it's true. You were comfort food. You are not the first and you won't be the last. It happens.
2006-11-08 13:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Val G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear! you are so very young, you should be thinking about having a good time with your mates, forget him, move on and enjoy life there is plenty of time ahead to get serious over a guy, do some more growing up first, good luck
2006-11-08 13:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. He has other responsibilities now. He needs to take care of his baby. He should have been doing that all along.
2006-11-08 12:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure when he's ready he'll get back in touch, and hopefully you two can be friends. Just give him time to come to terms with his new responsibilities.
2006-11-08 13:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Go back to school and learn how to spell and express yourself clearly in writing. You REALLY need to!
2006-11-08 12:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to spell first of all. And just leave him alone if he does not want to talk to you then you need to be okay with it. You were getting tired of him anyways.
2006-11-08 12:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by princessaranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Move on.Move. on. He has a pregnant girlfriend and is going to be a father. It's over between you and him.
2006-11-08 12:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down, calm down, and think properley if you still DO love him or not. You need to sort out your problems...
2006-11-08 13:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by BigMarshmallow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋