We've just started dating. I like him alot...and i told him so. however, this past saturday night when we together his phone was ringing off the hook!! I feel like i shouldnt be concerned about that, but i am. Is it that jealous side of me? Am i catching feelings? He told me that he enjoys my company and this and that...that ima keeper. but he's in the army and isn't from my state. he's just stationed here...what do you think? should i take it slow and just have fun? (my first instinct) or should i just elet it go bcuz he won't be around for long?
2006-11-08 03:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends if u get hooked quick well then u'll want to let him go now but if u can have a friend and just have a good time then keep em till he's gone just don't hurt urself
2006-11-08 03:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long he's stationed there, I might take it slow. My husband is in the Air Force and even though he doesn't go out, I do. When I am at the clubs on base, I see guys he works with, some married, some single in the dorms, but they've all tried to take me or my girlies home with them. They know that they don't have to live in one place very long, so if they wreak havoc, so what. They won't have to live with the drama or ramifications for very long. Especially you, you're not military so he's probably got more than one of you. Sorry.
2006-11-08 11:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He he was out on a date with you, he should have cut off his cell phone for respect for you. Unless he is a doctor... I would say that he has many women on the side and you are just a toy for him. I would look for other clues as to does he avoid taking you placing in public so that his possible other girlfriends cannot see the two of you together. Does he tend to stay indoors when he is with you, when you order food do you eat inside or take home..... Recommend that you look at some of these things....
2006-11-08 11:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by ACE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been married to an Air Force guy for the last 15 years.........I can tell you many of the men ARE players.......But many others are very nice honorable men!........It is also going to make a difference in how old he is........But I can tell you one thing if you really like him.......You may be choosing a difficult life.......Being a military wife is not the easiest thing you could do.......If they wanted them to have a wife they would have issued them one!.......So chances are he is a WONDERFUL man but his career will ALWAYS come first........And that can, at times, be very hard to deal with..........But if you really like him I would say not to worry about anything and take him at his word when he tells you your a keeper.....
2006-11-08 11:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust ur first instict...take it slow and have fun. If its really meant to be you guys will be together.. even it that means not right now. But if fate says.. you guys are meant to be, you'll be ... even if that means its late in the future.
2006-11-08 11:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by linds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him some slack...he's could be called in to put his life on the line.
2006-11-08 11:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by keg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart , and enjoy yourself and yes it's for the moment and as temporary as his stay so follow your first instinct lol
2006-11-08 11:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes stringing you along cuz he needs someone while he away. long distance relationship dont work. leave him.
2006-11-08 11:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if it's meant to be he will TRACK you down.
2006-11-08 11:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋