I recently got a new job and after a month of working here my boss made a huge sexual advance towards me. (He basically pulled it out and "released" on himself) He said the reason he finished so fast was because he kept getting hard and soft all day. After he cleaned himself up, he told me he felt bad because he has a girlfriend and she would never do anything like this to him. He wanted to keep it cool and stay friends/co-workers and I am fine with that. To this day I have never mentioned it and try to be as normal as possible with him, but he keeps giving me mixed signals. Somedays he won't talk to me or look me in the eye. Other days he will be playful like before the incident happened. We were alone together in the office the other day and he didn't try anything with me at all. Some people tell me he likes me and is a slow mover, and some tell me he realized he loves his girlfriend, and others tell me his is embarrassed by his quick release. What do you all think?
2006-11-08 03:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get serious! This guy is a predator in the worst way! Do some serious research in to "sexual harassment" and then file a complaint with his boss.
Please, do not sweep this behavior under the carpet because the next time he does this to a young woman, she may find herself being raped rather than a spectator to his "releasing" himself.
2006-11-08 03:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by silver2sea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody in their right mind is going to "whip it out" in front of a girl he hardly knows and the fact that you dismissed it so quickly makes him think it's ok. It's not okay to do that and you should stay as far away from him as possible.
Who cares if he likes you or not, because he has some deep rooted sexual issues that he needs to work out.
Just like everybody else said, get another job!! Or tell HIS boss about it. I doubt you will see him anymore and you would not have to worry about finding something else.
If he's done that to you, it's probably not his first time or last time. He's bad news, girl....
2006-11-08 11:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all said these things but you have never told anyone. How long now till the girlfriend finds out....then possibly girlfriend no more. This guy is playing with you.......if he was emotionally serious he would be just that ...not whipping it out at random intervals. For God's sake is there no gents loos in the office. Think you seek another job in a less stressful environment. His behaviour is not particularly flattering to you.....you do realize this. You are nowt but a sex object to him that he pretends is not there...until the battery hight and then plays with you (and himself)
2006-11-08 11:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems a little weird. I really don't know what to say about him but if he has a girlfriend then you need to leave him alone until he breaks up with her. I wouldn't want my boyfriend cheating on me like that. It also might be because of his quick release...he's embarrased that he came so fast and he thinks you might think he's disgusting or something. Do you like this guy? If you do then just find a time to talk to him. Get everything out in the open so that you'll know what ur dealing with.
2006-11-08 11:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to find another job. I am absolutely replused by this guys behavior. You only worked there a month and he just whipped it out and jizzed all over. Nice. Very classy. Get a new job girl!
2006-11-08 11:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be one VERY LOVELY lady for him to 'release' so quickly. As far as your actual question: He probably doesn't want to loose his job over a lawsuit and he is embarrassed over the incident.
2006-11-08 11:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's abnormal or something, you should look for another job is its an option, otherwise just try not to stick around with him alone. Who knows what he might do next time
2006-11-08 11:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that it matters much, but you dont mention if you did anything to get him to 'release' or if he did it himself.
2006-11-08 11:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE NEEDS TO MAKE UP HIS DAMN MIND, FIRST OF ALL IT'S NOT FAIR TO YOUM IT'S NOT FAIR TO HIS GIRLFRIEND EITHER, THE BOY NEEDS TO GROW UP, EITHER HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU OR NOT TO BE.
IT'S NOT GOOD FOR YOU EITHER IT'S EMOTIONAL AND HURTING YOU, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, YOU HAVE TO SEE HIM 9-5 MONDAY-FRIDAY
2006-11-08 11:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask where tha cash at. "Don't b surprised if she ask where the $ at"
-Lil Wayne
2006-11-08 11:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by waves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋