There is this guy who is not my type but i wont to be his friend what doi do.
2006-11-08 03:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ciiindy! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes a lot of courage for a guy to make a move on one of his friends. Sadly, when he is rejected by you then he will feel embarrassed and naturally pull away from being your friend. However, after a little time he may come back and try to be your friend. I have the same problem except I don't like to reject my male friends because I don't want to lose them. I try to play it off like their joking or pretend it never happened. Unfortunately this does not work. Just tell him right now you are not interested in him like that. Maybe someday you could grow into something more. Just because he is not your type now doesn't mean he never will be.
2006-11-08 03:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweets, you can try telling him just that, but don't expect anything. How would you really feel if a guy you really liked said the same to you? Could you stand there imagining yourself hanging out with him as a friend while he dates this chick an that chick.. would be a real bummer, huh?
2006-11-08 03:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not looking for anyone right now. Trust me it works, been there many many times before. And, I am still friends with the ladies, cant never tell you might want to go out later on.
2006-11-08 03:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. He should understand.. Be nice about it though and make sure he knows you really want to be friends.
2006-11-08 03:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go up to him and be like" I dont want to be in a relationship with you I just want to be your friend."
2006-11-08 03:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you cant see him in that way, tell him that you can only see him as a friend
2006-11-08 03:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore em why wouldn't u want to atleast be his freind unless he's the pushy type but ignoring always works
2006-11-08 03:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth, but be nice about it. Heopefully he'll get over it and you two can remain on friendly terms.
2006-11-08 03:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by fabulous diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the truth.
2006-11-08 03:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him nicely you are not interested and avoid his calls, emails, etc. he will get the message.
2006-11-08 03:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋