Since I've been here (and even before this) all that ever happens is me being dropped on my rear-end by a guy. I've had my fairshare of boyfriends. Some lasted a few months, others a few weeks. But lately my relations with guys have only lasted a week or shorter. I really don't think it's me, or at least I hope not. I am a college student. It seems like guys love to hang out with me, but we only go out one day, and it goes no further. And if it does go farther, its only for a few days. Once they realize they're not getting in my pants, they totally lose interest, or even if thats not the case, they wont talk to me for about a week. I'm not desperate, and I'm not constantly boy-hunting. This has happened with two different guys since the semester has started. It's frustrating, and I don't know what to do. I'd like to find someone worth being with, but it seems they're not on this campus. What should I do? And please dont be disgusting. Pants are staying on till a ring's on the finger.
2006-11-08 02:18:54 · 5 answers · asked by S L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations on having some morals. These guys are doing you a favor. They are indicating that they are interested for the wrong reasons. The best thing to do is find a local church, usually the larger ones, they will have a Young Adults group you can attend once a week or so, there you will be able to find a guy with some morals as well. Good luck.
2006-11-08 02:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gads, seems like thing have not changed from when I was going to school. hahaha Just kidding. Sounds like you are meeting the wrong guys that's all. The good thing about college it is about exploring new things as an adult. The bad thing about college is there are so many new things to explore as an adult.
At that age, the male only thinks with his penis. Actually, they only think with their penis till they die. Unless, they realize that it does not always work out right and they have to start thinking with the minds.
What should you do? Keep meeting guys till you find one that is really interested in you. And you might be a little more casual about till you find someone who can think and listen with his head above his shoulders.
This is coming from a 52y.o. Male.
Good luck.
2006-11-08 10:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short and sweet - stop dating guys who are more interested in getting into yoru panties instead of your head. Yea, I know you are thinking how not easy that is, But reality is there are lots fo guys out there who want to meet people, get to know them and see if a real relationship exists. But you won't find them in bars and clubs or other similar places where people tend to migrate to drink a bit and get horny.
Where to go is the real question. And the answer is:
-clubs and societies on campus where the emphasis is on the reason for the club not on drinking and carousing around
- join the Y and get involved in Y activities
- go to church
- join church or community groups
- take up a hoppy and join in with a group having that interest
- volunteer with the red cross, local guides ro big sisters, etc.
All sorts of venues to meet nice people who prefer to keep their pants on until it is appropriate to remove them.
2006-11-08 10:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a sorority or you won't have much of a social life.
2006-11-08 10:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have the right attitude do what you feel comfartable with its your body, you should make the decisions as to what you you want
2006-11-08 10:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by party69_27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋