If you are out with your wife or girlfriend and other men openly check her out, do you get mad? If so, do you get angry with her or with the guys doing it? Or does it not bother you? Women, does your guy get mad at you for this? My current boyfriend laughs at them, but my ex used to get furious with me.
2006-11-08 02:12:20 · 17 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband says that it's a compliment to his good taste-- he said that he wouldn't want a woman that no one else was attracted to.
Now, if they're downright rude about it, ex: staring at my chest, my butt, etc, he does get pissed. He says that it's very disrespectful to both of us. However, he does NOT get mad at me, that would just be stupid.
2006-11-08 02:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex-boyfriend that would freak out whenever another guy would look at me! So bad, he actually became abusive over it! Hence -He is my EX!!!
Your boyfriend now has the right idea! Laugh about it! It should be flattering to him! His laughter probably comes from the fact that he is thinking "she is all mine you sorry sap"!! It is natural for other men to look at you if you are attractive! You can't do anything about that! Anyone who gets mad at you for it is an idiot! As long as you are not staring back or flirting in anyway.
2006-11-08 02:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would I get mad? I'd be proud I was with someone others admired and were attracted to.
Personally, I'd see getting mad as a serious form of insecurity.
My wife has been hit on plenty of times. If it was done directly in front of me it would be showing a lack of respect for me, but that's a different subject.
2006-11-08 02:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It amazes me that there are actually guys that get bothered by this. To me it is an extreme compliment (especially to the woman) that she is worth 'checking out'.
2006-11-08 02:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is a confident secure person he will not get mad at you ... infact he would feel fortunate to be with a lovely lady ... :)however an insecure jealous guy would get mad at you for everything .. even if people are staring at your wierd hairdo - if you know what i mean ..
2006-11-08 02:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a total compliment. I love when that happens - especially if she ignores them - makes me feel like the luckiest guy in the room
2006-11-08 02:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get mad at the guy, sort of like, "Ok, you saw her now get going" It happens to me alot, but if she were to check him out I would get pissed. Anways, I get lots of girls checking me out, she dont like it but she thinks that when some of the girls are like 12 she thinks it cute to see they look at you that way. Im a model, so I look good.
2006-11-08 02:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not be upset if someone is checking out my boyfriend. I would take it as a compliment. HE looks good so why not look. I would be proud.
2006-11-08 02:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bantuknots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do anything unless they make a move on her... sometimes, if they are really obvious about it, I'll tell my wife and we get a laugh out of it because most times, they are slimeballs...
2006-11-08 02:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smile because I am flattered. I get mad when men look at me though. Usually because they're all gross or old or both.
2006-11-08 02:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋