its been going on for 2 yrs. what is he up to? does he just want my attention but why wont he come talk to me if he's inetrested in me? i dont have the nerve to go up to him. i dont know why but it drives me crazy when he does that. is he up to something or is he just simply playing mind games? why would he do that anyway. he is single by the way.
2006-11-08 02:11:53 · 29 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, so here goes. i am a muslim girl and he is'nt. he is christian and thats what probably puts him in this situation. he's worried that he's fallen for a muslim girl. is that right? i donet know whats going through his mind but he keeps staring. i cant take it no more. its just gone on too long.
2006-11-08 02:48:13 · update #1
Sometimes the best things in life are worth waiting for,,,,,,,Perhaps he is intrigued by something he sees,,,,knowing that the mystery of her soul is within his grasp.....he waits watches and loves her perfectly until the day comes when it is right ............approaching her already knowing that they are meant to be together.....
2006-11-08 02:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by demarest2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Hunny, the way you feel is probably a mirror image of exactly of how he feels. He may think she smiles and gives me the eye but never makes the move WHY! He may think that you are too good for him, unaproachable, or maybe he is dying to ask you but just doesnt want rejection. Does he give you the real eye where you see it and recipricate it, is it a feeling you have when he does it! Go for it yourself! Why wait! Take the bull by the horns and be an independent strong woman, what could be the worse thing that happens he says NO! We are stronger than that! Let us know what happens
2006-11-08 10:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has been going on for 2 years and you haven't ask or he hasn't came over to talk to you then there is a problem for both of you. Why would you put yourself out there to ask this question?.
Okay maybe he is gay NOT.... IT IS sample ask him if he would like to go to Starbucks and have some coffee or tea and this way you can keep it short so you can learn each other and if you like him then you set something else up if you find out it was a waste of time then you cut it short and tell him it was nice and move on. Stop wasting your time by asking this question on the computer and tell use the ending. Good luck
2006-11-08 10:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its either he is really an introvert who is afraid of being rejected or maybe a married person who could not try and attempt to make friends with you because he is already married or perhaps someone who just likes to gaze at beautiful/gorgeous/stunning/attractive/good-looking lady like you.
If he falls on the first category i mentioned and you are interested in him, why not give subtle hints that you are likely to accept his friendship and all he has to do is ask or make a move. If he is working with you. Try approaching him and asking him anything that is work related. If he feels that you are a nice person, then he might find the strength to talk to you.
2006-11-08 10:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may very well be into you. Confront him and see how he reacts. If he backs up or gets nervous, it's for sure - he likes you but is afraid to talk to you. If it's not like that at all, then you can finally find out what he's thinking about. 2 years? My, what a determined one he is. Talk to the guy.
2006-11-08 10:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny...you do the same, exact thing to him and do nothing, yet you wonder why he doesn't come talk to you. Why don't you take the first step? He's a human being just like you are, with the same basic make-up and the same insecurities...obviously, you two have a lot in common!
2006-11-08 10:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably shy or thinks a good looking girl like you would not even think about him, you could smile and say " Hello er do I know you " or something , it might start a conversation.
2006-11-08 10:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't have the nerve to talk to you either. Before my husband and I started dating he was nervous about talking to me so he got my cousin to ask we all worked at the same place. She came and asked me at work and pointed toward him but at the time she pointed at him this weird guy walked through in front of him and I thought she was wondering if I'd go out with the weird guy and said no, then I kept talking and flirting with this other guy I liked and he seemed interested and I wondered why he wouldn't ask me out so I asked him out finally and we were talking and I'm like why didn't you ever ask me out and he was like well you told your cousin you didn't want to go out with me and I'm like no I told her I didn't want to go out with weird guy so it was all a huge misunderstanding and we have been married for 8 years now and have 2 kids very happy ending.
2006-11-08 10:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't have the nerve either.....If you are interested in him, start a harmless conversation with him. One like "Nice weather we are having, isn't it?" See where it goes from there once it gets started..... Good Luck
2006-11-08 10:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he's either extremely shy and unsure of himself, or he may just be a perve. I suggest you leave him a note, or work up the courage to say hi.
2006-11-08 10:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋