I've been talking to this girl for about 3weeks now and I've been really nice I always let her know how happy she makes me and she does the same. The other day she told me she was sick so I ran to the store bought some chicken noodle soup. I picked the chicken out of it because he hates the chicken in chicken noodle soup. Her most favorite thing in the world is a Lemon slush from sonic and peanut butter m&m's. Well one day she was having a bad day and her dad was in a bad mood so I couldn't come over. So I got a slush some m&m's and two pink roses I hand picked. I went to her house well I snuck up to her house in the rain and left them on her doorstep. She was having a bad day and i wanted to be the reason she had to smile. Now take in to account we're not going out only talking. Am I too nice....
2006-11-08 02:11:17 · 16 answers · asked by I am smart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES....you're not going out, so, cut back on the personalized spontaneous gifts. Be nice, just without all of the other stuff. Nice guys are hard to find. Godloveya.
2006-11-08 02:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on her reaction to your attention. If she seems to appreciate it, thanks you, seems open to more - than I would say no and keep it up. If she shys away from it, doesn't mention it or barely says thank you or she doesn't return you affection or attention then your giving a little too much and I would cut back. It's really nice that you know that she likes the chicken out of her noodles and adores pink roses and such. There is something very intimate about a man who listens intently and then acts upon what he hears. If you find you need to cut back on what your doing - don't quit altogether. Just approach with caution. Perhaps later, when the two of you are closer you will again have a chance to use all that you have learned about her. And then you can write a book for other men. You may not even be all that old but you're well on your way to understanding more about women then most men know. Kudos.
2006-11-08 02:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly, dont worry about it - just be aware that some ppl will lead u onm and give u nothing in return
if u expect nothing this is fine but is also a waste and means the wrong ppl get on, best to find someone just as nice as u that u can lavish and devote all your time too
best way to look at it, we make mistakes along the way but get there in the end, just 'enjoy' the mistakes ;o)
2006-11-08 02:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by tony h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being too nice..........Sounds like you will make some woman a very,very good husband some day.....Keep doing what your doing and you'll find the right one who will appreciate all your kindness......It is really nice of you to know how she likes her soup.....Those are the wonderfully, special little things that my husband does that keep me very happy!
2006-11-08 02:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really sweet of you to do all of this and i wish there were more guys out in the world who are as thoughtful as you are...since you guys don't go out back off just a little bit...not because you're doing too much...it's because it may get to the point that she may take advantage of you...i say it's time to take your relationship to another level...good luck!!!
2006-11-08 02:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your too nice I just think your showing your true emotions to this women. If you do decide to persue her then she will know how good of a guy you are. you seem like some one i wouldn't mind talking too.
2006-11-08 02:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like the perfect guy and if you want to go out with her than you should try going to dinner or the movies.go slow and don't try to kiss her untill the 3 or 4 date because you don't want to freak her out.if she's not interested and just wants to be friends than you should accept it and move on.Good Luck!!!
2006-11-08 02:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by laurend2s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stop it. I would find it pathetic even in a guy that I really like. Use your niceness sparingly.
2006-11-08 02:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great guy. If she really seems to appreciate what you are doing, its ok. But don't go overboard, it will seem desperate and needy.
2006-11-08 02:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey slow down there, she might think you are getting kind of weird and I'll bet she's making fun of you behind your back with her girls friends.
2006-11-08 02:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by LaoSy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋