I think I am a pretty good player of the LOVE game, and I don't know why but I can't seem to shake my ex from my mind. I really liked him and he told me that he only wanted to be friends. He has a new girl friend, and just got a new cell phone, and inquired about me, and wanted to know if i wanted his cell number. WHY????
I just can't seem to think that he still is curious about me because he asks but yet, I don't want him to know that I still like him.
I know on a scale of 1-10 that he is not what I need in my life, but I guess you can't help who you like. I just don't know how to sort my feelings out, any suggestions.???Im all ears, and I guess all played out. A true player never gets attatched emotionally RIGHT???
help DAPHNE
2006-11-08 02:05:11 · 12 answers · asked by Daphne F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound just a tad confused. i thought games were something one played...........for fun, amusement, a diversion or maybe as a pastime. not while you're in love - or is it you're just pretending. if he's not what you need in your life get over it and move on. we may not have much (any?) control over how we feel but we do have control over our actions - it is what separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom after all.
and remember what goes around comes around. one day you might experience the real thing only to find you've been 'played' and that heart of yours gets broken.
2006-11-08 02:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by robsta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing games is for the birds, quite honestly. If people were more upfront there would be less confusion and more time to get down to the real business of relationships.
As for him - if he has a girlfriend and is messaging you asking you if you want his number - how faithful is that? He isn't showing much respect for his current girlfriend.
I would just let him know that since you aren't together you have no need for his cell phone number and would appreciate it if he'd not inquire about you. Tell him you still have feelings for him and you just don't think its appropriate for you or his girlfriend for him to be asking.
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2006-11-08 02:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, Love is never a game. Anyone who treats it as such is not ready to enjoy the benefits of a truly loving relationship. If you're going to be a Player, don't expect to find love until you're ready to stop playin'.
What's really up? Do you really care for this guy or are you just irked because he moved on? If he wants to be just friends with you, yeah he'll want to know how you're doing and want you numbers...JUST AS HE WOULD WITH ANY OTHER FRIEND. Don't make more out of this than what's there.
Call me crazy, but you're not really into him- you're all about whether or not you can still yank his chain. That's not love, that's being insecure. You've already said he's not what you need in your life.
Make a decision about yourself first. Are you ready to get out of The Game and have a grown up relationship? Do you want to stay a Player? Be honest with yourself. Know that getting out of The Game requires that you treat others with respect, you stop being shallow and you act with honestly with yourself and the object of your affection. Are you up for that? If you're not, just continue as you have been, though eventually it will get old...
2006-11-08 02:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it doen't seem you can only be friends with him it sounds like you need it all or nothing...as long as you keep up the friend thing you'll never really get over him and move on to something with more potential. If you're willing to cut him loose then I think you need to say how you feel even if it means hearing what you don't want to. But you'll be able to move on and get the closure you need with or without him.
2006-11-08 02:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are right, but i just don't understand y we have to play games any way this person clearly cares for you and want to keep in touch. i think that he just love playing games and if you continue to play knowing that you have feelings for this person. You will get hurt because it sounds like you fell for him so you broke a rule.
2006-11-08 02:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by L@M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. The game is just that, a game. However it he likes you for who you were when you were playing the game he might feel differently about you if you change your personality. Next time try just being strait with people.
2006-11-08 02:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by kinreep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes trying to get to you try and stay away from him, it seems to be that hes out to get some revenge on you for hurting him. So id stand clear of him at all costs. You never wanna be friends with a bad ex, it nevers turns out good. Good luck sweetie
2016-05-21 21:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still has feelings for you. It's normal for a guy to have that. Just give it some time, maybe he will forget about you and him and be friends.
2006-11-08 02:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by BloodyCarrion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not always a game honey..
sometimes the best players fall.. and fall harder than others..
face it if u feel u like him.. and stop playing.. and do what u can to get him back..
all the best.. :-)
2006-11-08 02:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by anamika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
games are for immature children.
when you get ready to grow up. is a good time to show how you really feel.
2006-11-08 02:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋