2006-11-08 01:58:28 · 23 answers · asked by squity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel...I am in a similar situation...and to make things more complicated, this guy is in a rock band...we "hook up" whenever he is in town & I definitely have strong feelings for him...I have to try to keep it real in my mind...since "it is what it is"...him & I have an awesome time when we are together....but it's hard though...you can't help how you feel about a person...whether they are married or not...I know I can "have him" but I just can't have him fully the I want too in a relationship since he is married...I'm enjoying it for what it is....hang in there...
2006-11-08 02:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by godsmacksun23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're now feeling guilty by getting involved with this married guy. You know this is not right why still want to continue. There is lot of single guys out for you to love & to be loved. Why take risk with a married man when you have better options without the guilt & worries that this guy can't give you all the love you want from him without sharing with another woman?
2006-11-08 02:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a run for the border. ( without him) Get out of there before the whole thing comes down on top of you.(and it will sooner or later) . How would you like it if you were the wife? Find a guy you can build a future with. Leave this one alone. He cheats on his wife and will do the same to you first chance he gets. (You can bet top dollar on that).
2006-11-08 02:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know stop and think about how you would feel if the tables were turned and some other girl was asking the same question! what you should do is get your own man and quit being a home wrecker! do you like being second! or the other women!a roll in the sack a good lay? get up and be your own person and start loving yourself first !he will never never love you! and you,ll always be second best !
2006-11-08 02:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well wher u from?is der lack of "single" men der?anyways does he have a family..i mean kids and stuff?if ya leav him alone for god sakes....k so does he love u?(if ya take a base ball bat and smash his brains out...)if he too loves u even after he is married do u think its a gud idea marrying him?tomorrow he may even leav u and go..wat wud u do den(-post another message)?hey now if he has no kids and all and still loves u id still say forget it...and if u really love him dat bad den give it a try but make sure he doesnt use u and den throw u for his wife.....
2006-11-08 02:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This kind of situation never works out. Most married men do not leave thier wives and if they do, continue to be unfaithful (And to be fair, the same goes for women). Learn your lesson on this one. Confine your romance to available men.
2006-11-08 02:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get out now. Why would you want a cheater? And do you think your the first or only one? All this is going to lead to is heartache and time in your life wasted. Plus if she finds out, and she will, it's gonna get messy and ugly!
2006-11-08 02:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥kissie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't just be his friend without something sinful happening than you need to leave this man alone nothing good comes from messing with someones husband.
2006-11-08 02:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by L@M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all it's wrong to fall in love with a married person . ( You should KNOW THAT !)
Break up the relationship .
2006-11-08 02:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a bad situation. IF he cheats on his Current wife, why wouldn't he cheat on any future wives!
Take you emotional hit now and find a single person!
2006-11-08 02:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋