What should I do?

Question

I've been on & off with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years. At one point, last year, things got so bad that we split and I went to a different man. Things were great with this guy, but we never started a relationship. After a few months, my ex and I "reconciled" and tried to make things work. Don't get me wrong, I love him and he has my heart, but I never cut-off contact with the other man. I never went to see him(I couldn't trust myself), but we talked all the time. Once again things are gradually going south with my boyfriend and I find myself not happy when I'm with him. But as soon as the phone rings and it's "you-know-who" I turn into a school girl - butterflies and all. I know it seems like common-sense: end the relationship and pursue the other man that makes me happy, but it's not that simple. By freak coincidence they worked together for a month or so, AND not only do they know eachother, but I found out my friend has this obsession with the other man..HELP! Which way to go?

Answer 1

sheeeesh.. thats hard honey..

if i were u, i would run from the situation, but i guess u cannot.. for now, just chill..

if u dont want to be with the guy u r with, chuck him , whether or not u end up with the other guy is another issue, its not a case of its either this or that i hope..

if u r not happy with this on n off guy, chuck him.. seriously.

Answer 2

well it's simple if your not happy with your ''ex'' , but your happy when u talk to the other guy just pick the other guy. chances r u will probably break up with your ex again since u 2 have been on and off. and what if the other guy is the one. all i can really say is follow your heart. ask your self this question, '' which one do u REALLY love?'' that's probably the best way to solve this question.

e-mail me when u chose
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Answer 3

Huh? Your on/off boyfriend has an obsession with the other guy that you like? That's kind of weird in itself.