are we meant to be?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months. We don't hardly ever talk on the phone maybe once a week and when we do talk it be about nothing so i tell him i will call him back tomorrow. I go see him maybe on the weekends and that is ok. so what shall i do.

Answer 1

sounds like you've both lost interest in a relationship. why not just be friends?

Answer 2

Are you sure you're dating? It doesn't sound as if you are very close for a couple thats been going out for five months. You need to spend more time with each other if your relationship is to grow and get to the next level.

Answer 3

I'd like to be the sort of friend that
you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that
you've been always glad to be;

I'd like to mean as much to you
each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine,
to me along the way.

I'd like to do the big things and
the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies
and leave them only blue;

I'd like to say the kindly things that
I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul
the way that mine you've stirred.

I'd like to give you back the joy
that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need
I hope will never be;

I'd like to make you feel as rich as I,
who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to
lean upon.

I'm wishing at this time that I
could but repay
A portion of the gladness that
you've strewn along my way;

And could I have one wish this year,
this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend
that you have been to me.

Answer 4

Well if it has been this way for 5mts i think that you should explore the ocean because it seems to me that he is doing it. really it is too soon to say because you two are still in the dating stage, one would guess, and if this is not true and you all are in a committed relationship, move on to better things because he has.

Answer 5

that means that there is a huge gap between u two. u have to know each other more especially if u have been dating for 5 months.
if u really love him get together and settle this down.

Answer 6

The excitement is gone. I say talk to him, he's probably feeling the same way you are and might want to call it quits on good terms.

Answer 7

I think that the best for your relation ship is to have a open talk about everything connecting you

Answer 8

I would try to spend a little more time with him. See whats brewing.

Answer 9

sounds like all is ok, if he treats you well try for another few months and see what happens, good luck

Answer 10

youre relationship seems to not have grown. maybe youre growing appart. it doesnt semm like you were meant to be. im sorry. good luck