I'm so scared I'll get sick again it's causing me to have nightmares. Does anyone out there understand what I'm talking about?
2006-11-08 01:50:50 · 6 answers · asked by momma 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I have been diagnosed with a chronic genetic disease recently which makes me prone to several serious types of cancer. The past few months I have been very ill, going from doctor to doctor while they run tests and perform procedures. I have been tested for cancer three times in the past six months (lung and leukemia). I have spent many a day laying on my couch feeling like I was dying while my small children played nearby. I have experienced the nightmares as well. Although I have not had a positive biopsy, I have been through the fear and anexity of waiting for the test results. I would lay in bed at night deciding that I would shave my head and wear cute hats instead of a wig should I need chemo.
My heart goes out to you. The only thing that helps me relax is knowing that my God is in control of my life, illness, and death. I know that I won't die a day sooner than he has planned. It could be tomorrow in a car wreck or when I'm 98 yrs old! I firmly believe that He has a plan for my life and may even use this illness for His glory. Without a personal relationship with Him, I would be in a very dark place as the past few months have been very frightening.
I would suggest that you seek out someone to talk to from your church. If you don't have a church, find one and get involved. I have also found that having distractions is very helpful to keep myself from worring all day long. I read my Bible, knit, blog, and now I answer questions on this web site. Its all really just a distraction. But it helps.
I hope you find some peace soon.
2006-11-08 02:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Vicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too had cancer and although cancer-free now for 11 years, I'm still scared, but I don't allow that to control my thoughts or my life. I'm still an all-around happy person, still stop and smell the roses and I eat right / exercise to boost my immune system. The more you stress yourself the more you are going to get sick again. I know it's hard to do, trust me, but it's something you should at least attempt to do, not only for yourself but for those around you that love you.
2006-11-08 02:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer 7 years ago....and I beat it (damn lucky.) I was feeling pretty good about it, doing my monthly exam, getting my mammograms.....then, my older sister was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 months ago. I know I'm clear now, but I do worry--sometimes. I feel that I WILL have some type of cancer again...it's just a matter of when. But I am not going to spend my time letting it interfere with my life. No way. If you can't stop thinking about it, join a support group. Doesn't even have to be just your type of cancer. Cancer is cancer and we all feel the same way. You can even find online chat for survivors. Good luck.
2006-11-08 01:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had endometrial cancer last year at age 31. I have to have checkups every 3 months to see if it has returned. In all honesty, it has caused me so much depression that I cannot function. I wish I knew how to deal with it, too. I waiting right now on my doctor to call back about my last test. I just get so tired.
2006-11-08 03:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by catzrme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had cancer 18 years ago, and the more you worry about it the more you suppress your immune system and make it likelier itll come back. You may have post traumatic stress disorder from the treatment. consult your doctor.
2006-11-08 01:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had cancer, but I can certainly understand the fear. Maybe u need to take something for anxiety. At the very least, tell ur dr.
2006-11-08 01:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by dragonkisses 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋