My girl wont commit after 3 months shes got tons of guys on her myspace emailing her and messenging her and she still wont post anything about us. its like she doesent even care until were alone. She says were dating exclusively but shes very flirtive and goes out alot and dosent come home(yes shes living with me) I dont know what to do should i pack her stuff or let her stay and work it out????
2006-11-08 01:46:49 · 16 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Three months isn't very long. I think I would back off a bit.
You seem to have a Love for Her that doesn't match hers for you.
Not sure why you are living together after such a short time, but if she is helping with the rent, utilities, food, etc., that's good. You might come right out and ask her, if she's just using you for a place to live or does she really like you. Be careful. I have been in a situation live this before and just ended up getting hurt.
2006-11-08 01:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with mild flirting .. but your girl seems to be doing more than that ... try and think why shes with you .. is it cos you pay all her bills and let her live with you for free (i think this is the reason) or does she really love you ( if yes then why does she have to hide your relationship) ... i would have advised you to work it out had she been worth it ... but doesnt look like she is ... give her one last chance ... sit down and discuss the situation with her ... if she refuses to change her flirting ways lead her to the right way - THE DOOR ....
2006-11-08 09:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack her stuff. She is probably just using you for a place to stay. Let her mooch off of one of the guys she stays out with all night.
2006-11-08 09:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are in a pickle here...Three months and you are living together,not a very good move...See if you can get to the bottom of this issue,if you can't and she still won't respect the relationship...Let her go...Sorry you have to go thru this...Good luck
2006-11-08 09:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her out. She'll realize that when your gone, she messed up. More than likely, she's got another bf and is just using you. Sorry to put it so bluntly, but sometimes that's the only way.
Good Luck!
2006-11-08 09:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id give her a decision make a commitment or leave tell her that its bothering you and if she don't commit to you your done. Especially since you two are living together
2006-11-08 09:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by anon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i feel for you. you sound like you need someone to be true to you. i would say you put her out but in a dignified and compassionate way like "look, we both want different things. i need someone who wants to be in a sincere relationship. maybe we should move on." i hope this works best of luck to you
2006-11-08 09:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM NOT ONE TO ADVOCATE ENDING A RELATIONSHIP, BUT IT SEEMS YOUR GIRL JUST NEEDS A PLACE TO STAY.SHE DO NOT RESPECT YOU AS HER OTHER HALF. YES WHEN YOU LIVE WITH A PERSON THEY BECOME THE OTHER HALF. WHO IS SHE STAYING OUT WITH, SHE CAN'T STAY OUT ALL NIGHT! SHE IS WALKING ALL OVER YOU. TALK TO YOUR BOYS THEY WILL TELL YOU A REAL MAN WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH THAT SHE IS ACTING LIKE TRASH AND TRASH BELONG OUTSIDE. TALK WITH HER AND TELL HER THE NEXT TIME SHE STAYS OUT OR THINK SHE IS TO TAKE HER THINGS WITH HER.
2006-11-08 09:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by BLUE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probly she's just not ready for you to ask those questions Give her a chance to come on your page
2006-11-08 09:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Odane/Botton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack her stuff, she's using you and cheating on you. There is no good excuss for her to behave like this.
2006-11-08 09:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋