This guy that I know has recently opened up to me. We've just recently become relatively close. He has a girlfriend, but I can tell that he flirts with me a lot. What the heck does this mean?
2006-11-08 01:45:12 · 18 answers · asked by italia_azure 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been guilty of doing this same thing in the past. He probably loves his girlfriend and wouldn't trade her for the world. However, he wants to know that he can still get attention from other females. So, he's flirty with you to satisfy the attention craving. It's an ego thing.
What I would do, if you are interested, is break his ego. Tell him that he only flirts with you because he needs to know if he can get other girls. If he really likes you and wants to be with you then he should break up with his girlfriend first before making a pass at you.
I wouldn't tell his girlfriend about the situation. You may cause problems in their relationship and trust me you won't get the rebound if they break up. He will resent you.
2006-11-08 01:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by RyRy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that i am not a guy but this is something that happened to my best friend was that my brother liked this girl but he already had a girl friend but he would also flirt with the other girl. He wanted to ask the other girl out but he didnt not want to hurt the other girl feelings. There might be a time where this guy would want to be with the both of you. Try not to let that happen.
The guy might also be the type of guy that naturally flirts with the opposite sex with out even knowing about it. I am the type of girl that does that. I flirt with guys with out even knowing it but i already have a boyfriend and i want to stay with him.
Either way just talk to him and ask him what is good beacuse he might not know that maybe u like him more than just being friends. Ask and you will receive an answer.
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2006-11-08 09:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly Belly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go where your thinking about going if he has a girlfriend and is flirting with you and maybe he likes you maybe not but if you two got together in the end he would do the same thing to you
2006-11-08 09:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by anon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like him??
if u do, u better watch your step, u could end up giving a guy a fun time with u , while he is cheating on some female who is probably serious about him..
if u dont , dont bother, and if he flirts too much, ask him to buzz off..
2006-11-08 09:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by anamika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I am a girl... and I know what this means.
Why the hell would he ask you out and "open up to you" if he already has a Girlfriend?
Makes no scence.
2006-11-08 09:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either He sees you as a Friend and Confidant or he is Just Playing the odds!
Why Not ask him what he's Playing at??
2006-11-08 09:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with g/f, b/f. Stop going after them. Find someone SINGLE. Its not that hard. And tell him that he has someone and he needs to be telling her how he feels.
2006-11-08 09:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keeping his options open
2006-11-08 09:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is two timing. Check his intentions. HE is either playing with you or with her!
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2006-11-08 12:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you should turn BI and steal his girlfriend away from him woohooo
2006-11-08 09:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋