ive been thinking about getting back with my ex he's not a bad guy and i know that he still loves me and i still love him should i take the chance or not
2006-11-08 01:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well their is a good side and a bad side with getting back withe your ex the bad side is that you two broke up for a reason, and that reson is what keeping you two apart but at the same time it is good to see what was missing and try to fix your problem, it's good sometime to go back and make things work, but you sy that you two still have feelings for each other so it may work out
2006-11-08 01:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The circumstances of the past breakup(s) are a key factor in whether or not it would be good to get back together. I can't answer your question for you, because I don't know either of you. I can tell you a little story, however. About 3 years ago, I met the man of my dreams. It was an instant attraction that drew us closer together than either of us was prepared for. At the time, I was a spoiled, selfish, immature brat, but he loved me anyway. After about 6 months, we broke up, because I kept pushing him to do something he didn't want to do. It wasn't that he didn't love me anymore, or that I didn't love him, but I messed up. After our breakup, we stayed good friends. He moved to another state, and I stayed where I was. About 9 months ago, we started talking about the possibility of trying our relationship again to see if we couldn't make it work. I'd done a lot of growing up since he'd moved. About 6 months ago, he bought me the ticket to move here to be with him. And we've never been happier. We're talking about getting married next year. So, if you feel that your story could end up like mine, go for it, take the chance. You won't know unless you try. Keep your guard up in case things don't work out, though. I wish you the best of luck. Remember, though, to keep in mind the reasons you broke up before. Be careful, and I hope it works out for the best.
2006-11-08 01:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of what you just said, "Ex." Why was he an ex? Was it a mutual split? Did he do something to break your trust? Did you do something to break his? Make sure you aren't just lusting after something you can't have. If you truely love him and want to make it work then I would suggest to first take things slow and try to heal the old wounds from your past relationship. Look at his qualities and see if you really desire him. If you do then definitely go for it! =)
2006-11-08 01:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, remember that exes ares exes for a reason. Consider why you broke up in the first place before you move on to considering if you should be back together.
2006-11-08 01:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by mreheather6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "ex" is an "ex" for a reason. If it didn't work out the first time whats different now?
2006-11-08 01:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by redsnowykitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think that it would be a good thing does not mean that he feels the same way. If you are both not in agreement then he would be you ex-ex
2006-11-08 01:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why you broke up in the first place, if it was something serious then NO.... but if it was because you had a fight and things got out of hand and you split, then ask your self if you still have feelings for that person, if yes go for it, what have you got to loose!
2006-11-08 01:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long ago did you guys breeak up if it has only been a couple of weeks then yeah i would suggest that you could give it a shot but if it has been more than a month then i would recomend against it i have done this a couple of times in my day and it has never worked out
2006-11-08 01:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends why the two of you broke up, and try and consider if the good moments that the both of you had out weighed the bad.
2006-11-08 01:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋