There is this girl I really love. I told her through e-mail my real feeling but she said that she was getting uncomfortable with all these, and she just wants to be friends.
I have been very kind to her and will continue to be very kind to her.
Will she someday accept me in her heart? I really hope she will - I can't imagine living the rest of my life without her! Please pray for me!
2006-11-08 01:27:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's afraid to love she's probably been hurt before just wait on her to come to you she'll see soon enough that you're really into her and not tryin to play games with her. Good Luck. I'll keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-08 01:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it.
Look, when you tell a girl how you feel, you do that hoping that telling her that will cause her to like you also, right? It just doesn't work that way. The huge amount of kindness and attention your paying to her is only making you look more pathetic and needy in her eyes. Your trying waaaay to hard. Give her lots and lots and lots of space. Give her time to miss you and wonder where _________is at. It's the only chance you have. Keep this up much longer, and she will soon be getting the hibby jibby's around you (but sounds to me like you've already pushed it that far anyway). Don't call, don't write, go on with your life. And for gods sake don't call her to let her know that your going to be giving her space, that's ultra pathetic.
2006-11-08 09:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not deserve you. period..
cant u love yourself a little more than u love her? trust me, one way u can get her to notice u is if u chuck her bloody hell, women hate being ignored, she may discover she had feelings for u if u dont beg for her attention and walk away.. even if she does not, she will wonder what happened, and u would have regained your respect, this is for your consolation.
if she is uncomfortable with your love, why do u want to be with her?
be a little kind to yourself as well..
live without her, u will be stronger at the end of it. and life does not work the way u imagined.
2006-11-08 09:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by anamika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you may want to stop by telling her your feelings through email. To let a woman know that you are truly being geniune you tell her your feelings to her face, looking straight into her eyes. You can't force her to accept your heart, and you shouldn't want to want anyone's heart who doesn't want yours.
2006-11-08 09:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will accept you....
...once you completely move on and no longer care one whit. This is the law of man.
I have spoken.
although, pudgie has a point.
Perhaps you should just meet her face to face, take her by the shoulders, look her insanely deep in her eyes and begin laughing like a screech monkey. This will endear yourself to her forever. She will never forget you!
:P
2006-11-08 09:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude I swear that you asked the same question I just did. I hope that everything works for you. I know exactly how you feel.
2006-11-08 09:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth a prayer. Have more confidence in yourself and set your standards higher. Others, like her, will come and go.
2006-11-08 09:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, you cannot force yourself on somebody. If you love her, let her go, if she comes back to you, she's yours. otherwise was never meant to be. In the meanwhile, focus on other areas of your life.
2006-11-08 09:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
il pray for you but i think you need to move on
2006-11-08 09:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by blondbitchandproud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if something is meant to be, it will happen.
2006-11-08 09:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋