Explain this 2 me? What do i do?

Question

Why when my boyfriend is mad at the world he takes it out on me then 5 mins l8ter after a log silence he becomes nice. He never smiles and that scares me alot.

Answer 1

You should talk to him about his moods and tell him he needs to find other ways of dealing with his anger, make it clear you wont put up with it, he might just change, it's not fair you take it all the time, and be careful because in the end you may become very unhappy!

Answer 2

He has an ANGER problem,, and someday instead of his yelling,, God Forbid he ever does,, but people like that one day start swinging and getting violent trying to make sure that SOMEONE knows they seem to have a point they want to get across and usually they dont care who get busted up side the head,,, My suggestion : Pack up your things RIGHT NOW, RUN FAST AND As far as you can, and dont look back,, that is NOT LOVE,, thats an As**ole with an attitude and anger problems, for your own safety GET OUT, and DONT LET Him talk you into staying, I am willing to bet you are about 17 or 18 yrs old and hes about 22 or 23 yrs old, can you imagine being with this guy and so every day for the next even just 5 yrs, whenever hes throwing a tantrum and not getting his way hes yelling at you and pretty soon its all gonna be your fault, and later after that hell it might just be your fault that it rained some day instead of sunshine like he wanted so he could go find another skirt to chase cause he has you to scared to even leave your own house, I say again,, PACK UP LEAVE TODAY< Guys like that need a good serious As* whipping, they think they can blame and beat up on innocent females,, I only wish I could take out my aggressions on a guy like that,, Besides,, "You dont want someone you can live with, You want someone you cant live without" I Hope the best for you,, Do the SMART thing,, not the Heart thing,,,,, I Hope this helps you to decide

Answer 3

Some people have a hard time separating their feelings so when they get mad at one person they are mad all over, at everyone. He probably isn't even aware he does it most of the time. Sit him down and talk to him about it.

Answer 4

here's the deal we can all sit here and tell you what we think is right. the fact is none of us know exactly what is going on, so you have to look inside of yourself and figure this out. however if he is physically abusive you need to get out and move on

Answer 5

i dont know why people do that because my brother does that to me a lot but he does it when he cant get his way but wht i think you shold do is while he is fussing at you walk up to his face and just kiss him and see what happeneds i din that once to my boyfriend and he stopped fussing but he wasnt fussing at me or anything i just did that to get him to calm down cause fe was getting on my nerves

Answer 6

he's mad, and he thinks that you are the only one who understands him, that's why he's like that...but when it's really starting to hurt, tell him to lay off...and advice him to smile...one smile won't hurt, and can brighten your day...maybe he's sad...give him a hug, a kiss or a gift...even an I LOVE YOU...it will show him how much you care...

Answer 7

Sounds to me like he has some emotional issues. If I were you I would suggest counseling, if he refuses then I would break up.

Answer 8

my husband never smiles at me just everybody else he's around.Some men are just like that .If I were you I would find me another boy friend .Find someone that is happy or you will never be happy .

Answer 9

Sounds to me like you need a more mature & stable b/f

Answer 10

maybe that's just his way of dealing with it. see if he can find a different outlet besides you. maybe go for a walk by him self to cool off. it's not your fault!