Getting a breast reduction, this has caused a slight disagreement between me and my beau, but seriously they are just too big...i know many women would like to have big breast, and eventhough i'm very attractive, guys seem to talk to my chest when having a conversation and then when i react in an assertive way they behave asthough they cant understand why.....even my friends think i should be grateful for having such big, and pert breast, but i personally would like them to be much smaller....this is a serious question....please let me know if you think it's a good idea?......
2006-11-08 01:17:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some insurance companies pay for reduction if they are causing back problems. i wish i could spend a day in your shoes, i have very small breasts, and have dreamed for breasts.
2006-11-08 01:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Osiris, if that's what you want to do DO IT. I went through the same. I had a DD(D) and it drove me crazy. I couldn't wear nice, tight jackets, felt really embarrassed at the beach and not to mention that it wasn't that nice to be stared at in such a nasty way. Let Pamela Anderson keep hers. She's a celebrity that likes to appear on Playboy and Maxim. If you don't want that look and you feel uncomfortable, do it. I felt so much better afterward. I still have a small D size since I'm quite tall and my looks didn't change much cause I still have big breasts. But I don't feel like I have air balloons hanging on my chest LOL
I also have way less back problems. The surgery is not painful, you'll feel discomfort maybe just the first few days and or first week. If you go with it, find a GREAT doctor, try to get referrals, don't just pick one out of the yellow pages (a friend of mind did like that and it was a baaad move). Best luck to you!!
2006-11-08 01:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously unhappy and think a reduction will make life easier for you then go ahead. But you should never base a decision on whether or not a beau likes the idea, it's not his body and therefore has no say in what you do. As for other men, although my breasts are not all that large, I still get stared at for longer than warranted. I don't think it has to do with your size, or mine, it has to do with men just like looking and talking to breasts rather than to your face. It's a man-thing!! lol
2006-11-08 01:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had my breast re-ducted 7 years ago and it was the best thing I did for myself. I did my breast because they were huge and causes back problem so I didn't just do it for fun, if that's your case then you should get it done. As longest you're not doing it for fun, than, good luck!
2006-11-08 01:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all on you. You're the only one who knows how they make you feel. It's probably a psychological issue more than physical. If the size of your breasts and the way people treat you because of them, is hurting you, then yes it's a good idea to do something about it.
2006-11-08 01:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If having big breast is detrimental to ur health, then have them reduced. It is a personal preference, but God created u how u are, what if u go through with it & u then look disfigured.
2006-11-08 01:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to know the risks of what would happen... You will become less attractive(thats assuming they are normally big like pam). If you are ready to lose the ability to make guys come over and flirt with you then you should get it done.
2006-11-08 01:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your life and your breasts, they are causing you mental anguish and that is a good enough reason for the reduction, not to mention that as you get older they will cause you physical pain. Good luck!
2006-11-08 01:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, do what you feel is right I mean if all men talked to my breast i would get them reduced too. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 01:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep in mind we don't have breasts to keep our man happy, they do have a purpose. Do what makes you feel good, he will learn to accept or he can learn to do things without you. don't back down
2006-11-08 01:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋