Everytime me and my boyfriend have an arguement it kills me! It hurts way too much. (im 22)
We are in the middle of one now over text. Basically i talked to him last night about using KY Jelly as i find sometimes that i can be really turned on but still be dry! He then twisted it and acused me of lying to him about not enjoying sex and thinks now i dont want sex!
Now he said he dont care, he wants me to stop at home tonight end of?
What shall i do? Please help, i cant loose him.
2006-11-08 01:13:12 · 9 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Millions of women have that problem and it has nothing to do with the guy or his ability to perform...see, he is taking it personal. This is a hormonal change women experience. It's not all about him, but rather your ability to have sex without pain.
2006-11-08 01:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you lose him? It sounds like you already have. This is silly. A man should respect a woman in the bedroom. If he doesn't, and, if he is picking pointless arguments, then he is sending you a clear message. Trying to cling to someone in this situation is pointless. Stand up, have some dignity, and move on.
2006-11-08 01:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this has nothing to do with you. It has all to do with him. He needs to believe what you tell him if he is sure you love him. He might be having some suspicions about your relationship. In other words, could he be doubting you are seeing someone else?
Perhaps you can just assure to him that being with him with and without any sexual relationship is more than enough for you because you love him
2006-11-08 01:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by prighas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a frightening hadith of Prophet(pbuh) I do not know the unique phrases however the hadith is that If a Muslim see an oppression and comes to a decision to not do whatever approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor by means of his middle or by means of his speech have the bottom degree of Emaan.
2016-09-01 09:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel about what he said about u and tell him how u feel about all the arguing and he'll have a blank and be all .."Baby, I'm sorry I didn't know u felt that way.." and all that, See if it works.
2006-11-08 01:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by sexylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is being too sensitive. He should learn how to communicate and respect your feelings.
2006-11-08 01:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't show up at his home tonight this guy has an attitude. stand up to him and tell him to cut off the nonsense. show him that you mean business!
2006-11-08 01:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my bf too.if u really love him,try to explain that u still want and enjoy sex with him.
2006-11-08 01:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol irony. You dont want to "loose" him....lube. You're funny.
2006-11-08 01:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋