i like this guy and i have to tell him i really like him. but i think he isnt expecting it coming from me, he is a really good friend.
so wat do i say? i have no idea... i mean if i tell him how i really feel, that i love him, he wudbe like why didnt u tell me before and be freaked out.
he had a gf earlier and thats why i didnt say anything.. now theyve broken up and he spends more time with me than ever... what do i do? wat do i say?
2006-11-08 01:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by L W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kiss him. That will say everything.
2006-11-08 01:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by girls_lie_too_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to consider how long he has been broken up with his girlfriend and how serious their relationship was. Next you have to know that when you start a relationship with a friend its hard going back to that friend mode...words will be exchange and things may not be the same.
2006-11-08 09:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow and do not spit out that you love him right away. But, DO tell him that you have stronger feelings for him than just friendship. Let him take some time to soak it in and see what happens. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 09:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short to be worrying about how he might react,just spit it out. At least you take the risk and must accept any outcome. And if his not planning to have a relationship with you what the heck
there's plenty more fish in the sea, just have to know how to fish.
2006-11-08 09:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by blueyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think this is really the good time, sweet? ty to get him in a relaxed mood...ask him to go with you to places he likes...then at night, when the stars are really bright, take a deep breath and break it to him gently...and when he asks the question "why", tell him that he had a gf at that time, and you didn't want to get in the way of his happiness...if he refuses, don't show any negativity...keep cool, and ask if you guys can still be friends...if no, then why should you care? your heart is precious, not cheap
2006-11-08 09:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by chinggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its harder to say it to him face to face or verbally that you love him and it takes a lot of weight off of your shoulders to write a letter, send a text, or an email but it is the best thing to do...in this situation it is not best that you tell him upfront...it is best to find a segway into the conversation of how you feel about him...ask him if he feels that ya'lls friendship can go to another level or if he can see if you guys can take it to another level...and then take the conversation from there...
2006-11-08 09:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him directly. if you dont say it it will be too late. by telling him you can hav little hope
2006-11-08 09:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by goodguy_a2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding in feelings is unhealthy. Just say it, and if he rejects you....well then poop on him.
2006-11-08 09:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are friendly just talk to him and see what his interests are and see if you are one of them
2006-11-08 09:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.............. say it now ....................... say what if it was like this ............... and see .................
2006-11-08 09:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by spaceman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋