im thinking of cheating on gf?

Question

im thinking of cheating on gf as not getting much action in bed room we have spoken about it and gf has just gone off sex

Answer 1

Don't cheat as this will drive you further apart or even split you up. You have to get to the bottom of why she has gone off sex. Is she worrying about stuff or depressed. These can make you go off sex. Why don't you try pampering her and showing her how much you love her but don't make her feel pressurised into having sex. She will come round if you try. Good luck x

Answer 2

Different people put different things that are what they call 'factors' to the relationship in different orders of requirement. In this case, should you feel that your relationship is suffering, due to the lack of action in the bedroom, then you will only seek it elsewhere, and once you break away in that aspect you will always compare what you currently have with what you can get, and i feel i speak for most of us when i say that this happens, you are no longer in a faithful and commited relationship. I would strongley reccomend you revise this situation before you cheat and decide weither you can work on it or not and allow the relationship to carry on or come to an end.

Answer 3

Rather than cheat on her, maybe it's better to call it a day and move on. It's cruel to her to be playing around behind her back. You obviously don't value the relationship very much if you're willing to cheat at the first sign of a problem. If you loved her you'd be willing to help her with her problem and try and understand why she is feeling the way she is. If you're not bothered about helping her and have just gone off her, do the kind thing, talk to her, tell her how you feel and move on!

Answer 4

I would have to wonder why you wouldn't just break it off. If she's not worth being faithful to then maybe she's not worth having. I wonder if there is a more specific reason that she lacks in the bedroom. It kinda sounds like you want to cheat on her to get her back. Wanna know the irony in that? You're the one that will get hurt the worst by cheating. I can't really explain why but I can tell you from experience, being th cheater is a hurt that doesn't go away for a long time. Do yourself and break it off or make a true commitment.

Answer 5

Have you ever thought that you may be the reason for her going off sex? You may just not be doing it right for her. Not being funny but if you are seriously thinking of cheating then you aint worth it. Why not try and work things out with your girlfriend? Are you going to give up that easy?
Either you love her or you don't. If you don't love her then be a man and let her go.

Answer 6

Maybe, just maybe... its not her gone off sex, its her gone off sex with you. Someimes guys do the same thing every time in bed, which is boring. If you bored why bother right? Well spice it up, dont cheat, you will just end up having crap sex with some else and maybe catching some nasty STI. If you keen to cheat, just leave her before you do, so that if you do catch a STI, you dont pass it on to you girlfriend.

Answer 7

Don't be a scumbag and cheat on the girl. Do the honourable thing and end it before finding someone else...
Maybe you just don't do it for her anymore? Maybe she has things on her mind? You could always try a romantic approach to sex, we like to be wooed! x x x

Answer 8

Dont you dare cheat on her!!!
There are too many men out there causing pain by cheating, you dont need too be one of them!!
You should be ashamed that you are even thinking about it!!
Find out why she has gone off sex.

Answer 9

If she's gone off sex, u might not be that good. U better get her to like it with u before u move on, nothing worse than us women mouthing ur bedroom skills off.

Answer 10

gonna have to finish the gf if things dont improve cheating wud only be a temporary fix for u