ok, i really like this girl, but the problem is she's 14 and i'm 17 and she's too delicate. know what i'm saying?? like, she's not been through life very much AND she's my best friends sister. both of them r a little delicate, and my buddy is a sissy but he's my friend anyways. the thing is, i've liked this girl for a long tym and shd i ask her out?? will she freak out or get confused?? life was a lot simpler some time ago
2006-11-08 00:24:35 · 12 answers · asked by pHObiA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away
2006-11-08 00:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't pounce on everyone and everything we "like" in life. We make an educated decision about whether or not it is in our best interest. In this case, you are too old to date any 14-year old and it would cause a lot of concern on behalf of your "sissy" best friend to have to take a stand.
I am concerned that you are starting out young adulthood fearing "women" and want to step back and pick a "child" to date. I am also concerned that you would refer to your best friend as a "wimp." That is also something a much younger guy would resort to. It seems to me that you want to feel superior to both this young girl and your "best friend" by ratcheting up yet another score over the young and the wimpy. Not a good way to approach adulthood.
Also, any parent that would let a 14-year old "date" is one bad, loser parent trying desperately to be her/his little girl's "friend." Bad move by the parent, worse move by you.
2006-11-08 00:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young...wait until she is 16.
I know it is hard if you really like her, but she needs to grow up a little. Think of her, not you, when making that decision. If you really care for her then think about the place she is in right now. It would not be a good time to maintain such a relationship so young...she is just starting to find out who she is and what she wants and it would be rather confusing during that time to have a relationship when she doesn't know herself very well.
You could influence things that she really needs to have time for herself to figure out. Do you want that responsibility?
Let her grow up.
2006-11-08 00:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't like other girls as much as her and would really appreciate her being with you, then i am sure her brother won't mind. Just you should understand there are a few things you may want to wait with, sex for example. But it will feel all right of you have a respect for her and will really treasure her.
2006-11-08 00:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't bang your best friends sister.
At least not yet. Just fool around some until she is older. Say 15 or 16.
2006-11-08 00:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've liked her for a long time, wait until she's 18. As soon as you turn 18, you're bound to get in serious legal trouble if you try to date her.
2006-11-08 00:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't u ask her out. well she wont be confused or something like that. i bet that kids of 14 age know a lot more than 17
2006-11-08 00:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best if you stayed away. because she is just 14 and might not be really mature enough to start a relationship with a much older guy.
2006-11-08 00:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by drtmvs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is fine my friend i have done it a million times. Just don't get much younger than that
2006-11-08 00:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by T B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the brother if its alright with him. Then deal with her slowly, ask her to come with u to small things &see if she's comfortable with u first. 14yr olds know more than we do these days. (faster maturity level)
2006-11-08 00:29:40 · answer #11 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋