Hubby & I are moving & going to buy a house at the end of next year. I think we should try to have a baby next year. It takes 9 months to carry so why not try maybe in March or April?
2006-11-08 00:13:48 · 14 answers · asked by beachbum26 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think that if it's something you and your hubby want to do then go for it!!! I would weigh all the pros and cons of being pregnant during a move. If it's to a new town, then I would find a OB first and make an appointment for a pre-pregnancy check-up to make sure everything is alright first. Start taking your folic acid right now also. This helps to reduce the risk of neural tube defects like spina bifida. Good luck girl & come back and let us know how everything goes!!!
2006-11-08 00:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your call, but trying to buy a house while pregnant could be tricky. Moving with a newborn or baby who is only a couple of months old can be very tricky--plus it will be winter.
Perhaps buy the house, move in and then get pregnant?
Remember, pregnancy is really NOT a plan-able event. We all think we can plan it in advance, but it doesn't always go according to plan.
If you have a difficult pregnancy then house shopping/moving may be the last thing you want to do. Moving with a newborn is a nightmare, trust me on this LOL.
My opinion: house first, baby second. Look at some online baby sites now and review safety info so you can think about the baby while you're house shopping.
A good friend bought her dream house near the beach---had a baby two years later and then realized that the yard wasn't safe. The salt marsh which comes up behind the house and gives her the gorgeous view means she has no backyard for the tyke to play in. Because of the lay of the land and neighbors, fencing is nearly impossible. The house has been on the market for 9 months.
Best wishes.
2006-11-08 00:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by bookmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think this is something that u and your hubby should decide it should not be of public concern.But first of all you can never be exactly sure when you will take in even if you do everything right it does not always come when you want it.And secondly it is not advisable to move from one place to another when you are pregnant because of the stress involved it is always better to move first then get pregnant.So that you get settled in and comfortable.lastly if you really want a baby then i believe you should go for it.It's the best thing that can happen to any woman.Besides things are never perfect enough for one to have a baby if you decide to wait till all is perfect then you might as well forget it.I wish you good luck
2006-11-08 00:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by sadia 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the daddy does not stay with the infant he can't declare her until eventually the mummy supplies him written permission, wherein case the grandparents would desire to be quite ticked off at their daughter, and could supply her the privilege of earning her own way from then on! because of the fact the infant lived with the two the mummy AND the grandparents, the two can legally declare her - they'd agree between themselves who will declare her. in the event that they'd't agree, the mummy has first declare. If the daddy and the grandparents the two declare her, then the IRS will look into and the daddy (assuming the mummy did no longer supply him the written permission) will would desire to pay returned something he have been given from claiming her, plus activity and effects. If the two attempt to declare her, the 2d to record will would desire to record via mail, on account that an efile claiming her may be rejected. the daddy paying baby help, notwithstanding if it have been lots extra suitable than he's paying, supplies him no criminal ideal to declare the infant on his tax return.
2016-10-21 11:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new baby and a new house could be pretty hectic to deal with all at once. However having said that, I know people who have done that and they are perfectly happy.
2006-11-08 00:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would personally wait untill you are all settled in your new home.... going through pregnancy is a stressfull time alone.... but having a new baby around the same time as a move would have a huge inpact on yourself... i personally would wait but this is just my opinion
but good luck with whatever you choose to do
2006-11-08 00:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Kelly!
2006-11-08 00:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's totally up to the two of you and what y'all feel ready for...nobody else can or should make that decision for you...
2006-11-08 00:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something only you and your mate can decide. Whay difference does public opinion make?
2006-11-08 00:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be a good idea especially if u guys wanna have a baby
2006-11-08 05:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋