Ok I know everyone always asks annoying questions like this but bear with me. There is a girl in my class that I know absolutely nothing about, and she is not out of my league (look wise). The problem is there are about 130 people in my class. It is very hard to get close to her to ask an out of the blue question and we have assigned seats how do I confront her without looking like a weirdo? I would prefer that girls answer. If a boy came up to you, what would he have to say so you wouldn’t think he was a serial killer or a weirdo? Please be realistic too. I’m not really the shy type so this is annoying me big time! HELP ME OUT!
2006-11-08 00:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by T B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if I were this girl that you speak of, and was randomly approached by you, I'd probaboy be flattered and impressed, to begin with. Why? Because approaching her like that is a sign of true confidence and the feelings of flattery would come from the fact that you made time to talk. I would just introduce yourself to her and make casual conversation. Never rush because girls are usually scared at the thought of moving too fast in any kind of relationship. (At least, I know I am.) Keep talking to her and see how it goes. If you don't know her personality too well, (and I'm guessing you don't) then you may not even like her after talking to her for a while. After you think you know her well enough, and have made a substantcial amount of conversation, then maybe ask her if she would like to hang out sometime. (When doing this, maybe make it a group ordeal to start, to make sure she feels comfortable with you. Also, that way you both know some other people and have other people to talk to.)
This is just my advice, I am a girl so I think I know a thing or two about them lol. But good luck anyways, whether you use my advice or not! :]
2006-11-08 00:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prepare a small note (smaller than ur palm) with a "HI" written on it. U could choose to put ur initials, too. Then the next time u go to class, make sure u pass by her seat and smoothly bend down as if you are picking a paper from the floor very near her seat. Stand and put that small note on her table and say something like, "this yours?" But u won't actually want to hear her say "No" so u smoothly continue walking along like nothing happened. It will help if you smell so good, too. U will create a cloud of mystery about u that she may or may not want to discover. At this point, u must not attempt anything to make contact with her. But be observant if she will react positively to u in the next days to come. Appear approachable but it's important to appear cool, too. The note is your first move. The second move must come from her. If she doesn't make the next move (ex: smiles or looks at u) at all, rule it in that she is not interested. Good luck.
2006-11-08 08:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin saver 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a boy came to talk to me, I'd like him to approach with a gentle smile, so it looks like he's not being forced to walk up to me. Try not to have your hands inside your pockets, it makes you seem like the nervous type. Before completely coming up to her, make sure you have 100% eye contact, for she knows your coming up, and it doesn't seem like you appear out of no where.
Once you are fully up to her, say, "Hey!" or "What's going on?" once she answers, try to keep on that subject before changing it. Soon, you'll be talking to her smoothly, and you won't even feel nervous anymore.
TIPS: Don't go up to her when you have to go to the bathroom, are sick, thirsty, or anything else. Make sure you are 100% comfy, and you look 100% awesome.
Hope I helped!
2006-11-08 08:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by M&M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could pass a note to her that say's "I like you do you like me? please circle yes or no.
Why don't you start out with making an introduction. We have the same class. Do you have a mutual study group? Go up to her and say Hey I'm ______ and I just wanted to introduce myself and I was wondering if your free for a movie/dinner/rollerskating/darning later?
2006-11-08 08:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and say Hi my name is ?????. I missed what the homeowrk assignment was or I miissed some of the notes or whatever. Ask her if she can fill you in or if she would like to study with you or something.
2006-11-08 08:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well, see which way she leaves, if theres more then one way of the room, and bump into her, or ask when a test is to break the ice, or just make a funny comment on the way out, and see if it gets her attention, good luck, teehee
2006-11-08 08:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Vprincess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not look like as much of a weirdo as you think, if you act boldly.
2006-11-08 08:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look at her. Whenever she looks back, wink. If she smiles, you can talk to her about everything you want after class
2006-11-08 08:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by wachichornia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit next to her and just say. Hey how are you doing today? Gradually get to know her.
It isn't that hard.Once you start talking to her and before you know it, she will be your friend...the more perhaps.
Good luck
2006-11-08 08:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just come out and say this... "Thanks for coming out today"....in the most non-sarcastic way. When she says what? just say you are very pretty and I appreciate that you came to class today. Smile and walk away...Trust me on this one. I do this all the time.!
2006-11-08 16:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by krystal c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋