I'm not a native English speaker, so please forgive any mistakes I might make. My life has been a mess, and I want to turn my life around. What I decided to do is treat others as I want to be treated. However, I'm unsuccessful in doing so when people show me no respect. Also, I sometime forget to do what I have to do, that is treat people nicely. Does anyone have any suggestions?
2006-11-08 00:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hi, I am Rational Spirituality,
The fact that people sometime show you no respect is a sign of a challenge, and a test by God. What would be the point if you were only behaving correctly when the going is easy?
Persevere every day, and you will be eventualy rewarded.
This is not to say that you should not defend yourself, or your rights. When injustice takes place against you, you have the right to defend yourself by any appropriate legal means, and in a polite appropriate manner that will not hurt third parties.
If you would like to learn the rules of purificaton and payback, read "Rational Spirituality" on the Dhaxem website. It explains why is it worth to persevere.
Good luck!
2006-11-08 01:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to treat people as you want to be treated. The point is not how you are treated. You become a better person by your actions not others.
2006-11-08 00:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by tsnyunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forget in life to get along best take on the role of deplomacy in everything.
there is a reason diplomats ar sent in to diffecult situations before anyone else.
if you dont know how to be diplomatic, make friends with people who have that trait or buy a book and practice
2006-11-08 00:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being friendly and keep respecting people. They will eventually brake and start showing respect. This may take some time to do.
2006-11-08 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know people more intimately...visit them at home....think of others and what they want and need and try to help them get it.
Always put yourself last...stop being selfish...when you are kind and generous to others especially widows and orphans you will reap large rewards in heaven.
2006-11-08 00:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love urself first
2006-11-08 00:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by george p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be kind anyway
2006-11-08 00:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋