I am from India. Here, sex is not so open as in US. While we boys, despite the negative environment, like sex, girls I have talked to all say they'll never, ever have premarital sex. Also, they in general do not like sex, and shirk from even talking about it. Have they not yet dicovered their inner feelings, and are obeying the mindset of parents, elders etc., or they really do not enjoy sex as much as guys do? If they do, how is it different?
2006-11-08 00:02:21 · 34 answers · asked by imeandmyself_14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Contrary to what you think, girls enjoy sex as much as men. Maybe more.
It is a fact that girls by nature are less extrovert when it comes to discussing matters of sex with men. Though they talk freely about sex with other women, specially of their age. Religion and society play a great role in shaping their attitude in this regard.
But some very recent authentic surveys (e.g. one conducted by India Today magazine) have established that more and more Indian women are shedding their inhibitions to openly air their sexual preferences and opinions. There are not only a great many instances of premarital sex, but extramarital sex as well. This is by no means all pervading and is largely restricted to metros and that too among the very liberal minded and financially independent sections of women.
The change is already visible. But whether for good or bad, only time will tell.
2006-11-08 02:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 21:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India most of the girls are brought up inside a close knit family which may have orthodox elders. So its ordinary for them 2 behave like this. But I like the Indian culture. It gives the consent 4 sex only after marriage. The parents in India know how to bring up their kids. Does'nt guys like their wives 2 be virgins
2006-11-08 02:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Yes female like sex as much as men...
Of course they don't know what sex is like if they haven't been there and done it, they will in time come to enjoy sex between a man and a women, it is a experience you have to have before you can say you do or do not like it, sometimes a female can be put off the idea at first because for some it can hurt the first time.
There are some guys and girls out there that are not as experienced as others and when it come to the moment they can have a bad experience, but the more you do it the better you get!....lol
2006-11-08 00:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whether it is India or somewhere else, girls are girls.
They really enjoy sex more than men.
In India, girls are active at night.
They wanted to enjoy sex in dark.
Most of the girls never know the anatomy of their body.
Unless they are given sex education from school levels, they will never know what is sex.
Go through the book "Marriage Manual" a nice book on everything in sex.
2006-11-08 02:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls in India are taught to 'save' themselves for their husbands, which I think is a good thing. but the problem is most parents approach this in a very wrong way, so girls feel that it is an obligation to obey their parents, rather than feel personally that they should remain virgin till they get married.
also the scare of getting pregnant before getting married is a great one for a girl, whereas the men dont really worry about this.
and of course women enjoy it just as much as men do... !
2006-11-08 01:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes we like sex just as much, in fact, I think even more if we have the right partner. Some days all I can think about is touching my man. I would like to spend one day a week in bed all day long with him. No interruptions, no inhibitions! I love to have sex at least 5 days a week and at least 3 times on each of those 5 days.
2006-11-08 01:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by just another answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should respect that...I'm not in India and i've never ever had premaritial sex.....
If you want them to enjoy it, you should show them how great it is for both them and you.
I dont want to offend you or anything, but I've read lots of scary rape stuff and extreme sexist from India, no wonder the girls there are scared...Duh...
even if there not open about, it doesnt mean they dont like it, like you said they havent tried... so when you get married, show some US opennes and give them the plesure and respect they deserve and need. I meant just one woman not lots of wives please...
I dont find it wrong to follow the elders, not having sex before marriage wont kill anyone
2006-11-08 00:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by rhea 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women do not enjoy sex very much, but most women do, and alot of women really love it!! They don't talk about it much where you're from because it's considered taboo and makes you "dirty". And anyone who hasn't had sex, but lives in a culture that says 'sex is bad except for when you're married and want to have a baby' will most likely have a negative view of it. You should respect their decisions to stay pure until they are married, but women should know that sex can be fun and very pleasurable!!
I personally absolutely enjoy sex very much! My husband often asks what it's like for me, but it's not really a question that can be answered.
2006-11-08 00:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure how things are in india, as i am from canada, but it sounds like the girls you talk to have been taught that sex is wrong. that it is something that they have to do for their husbands and not anywhere else. obviously these girls havent explored their bodies and dont know the joys of sex. yes girls do like sex as much as guys. sometimes they even like it more.much much more.
2006-11-08 00:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋