ok. my best friend has decided to become a lesbian(i'm the only male exception) but realisically we don't work as a relationship(friendship works well for us with the occasional sex for fun) the catch of the matter is i think i'm falling hardcore for her friend who is mostly straight, who i have fooled around a bit with, in my best friends presence. I rarely get emotionally attracted and attached to someone, and my best friend knows that. I'm quite confused. not sure what to do. I know my best friend would gladly rather be with me, than any girl. But while she is the bestest friend in the world to me, there is no attraction. But is it worth it to go after her friend who wants me(at least physically) and i want her(maybe more than physically), but also but best friend wants her but this other girl is mostly straight. I know it's a mess give me advice please.
2006-11-07 23:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by cobratsar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i can't have them both, nor do i want them both. I'm the male other two are female.
2006-11-07 23:51:15 · update #1
if u trust ur friendship, u would bring it to a higher level if u could talk about this problem. I am sure nothing cannot be settled with honesty in a friendship.
2006-11-07 23:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin saver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acardia, I believe you'll soon receive some tangible pieces of advice from lesbians and gays, but I'm NOT one of them. If the question were to be in line of bisexuality, I would've been able to help. Sorry about that and good luck.
2006-11-07 23:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused, but hey what the hell! Do what ever you want! Are you the male or the female? I'm still confused! Screw the lot of them! Then you can judge which one you prefer! I'm really confused now!!!
2006-11-07 23:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't persue anything with someone who doesn't want the same as I do it'll never last. your just setting youself up.
2006-11-07 23:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by 1 luvly LEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my friend are in a very messy situation
2006-11-07 23:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Switz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a mess your in.
2006-11-07 23:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away from that mess.
2006-11-07 23:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have them all and let them all have you you may not end up with any of them so have fun
2006-11-07 23:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Maria W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not have them both
2006-11-07 23:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋