Do u know any Bride who got drunk or tipsy at her wedding? My friend got married 5 months ago and she was well tipsy at the end of the nite, not like she was falling all over the place or mouthing of to people, tipsy and merry really. She's still feeling really really bad over it. It's not something she normally does, just so many people were buying her drinks that day and she was on a high etc, She has a few blanks of the night but she saw them all on video afterwards. I dont think anybody noticed though, nobody commented, she can cover it up well, She just danced the night away. Her hubby wasn't mad at her either. How can i reassure her? Everything else went great on her day. She's still so down about it.
2006-11-07 23:11:23 · 12 answers · asked by Carm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yes, I did get tipsy at my wedding. Just like your friend, I was on a high, hadn't eatten much the whole day, and starting drinking when I arrived at the reception (the staff was there with a glass when I stepped out of the limo) But, I ENJOYED every minute of my wedding day, I smiled, I laughed, I danced, and I didn't care what "problems" might have arised. Sure I wish I hadn't gotten quite that way, but I wouldn't take the night back to do over...I had a great time...and so did all of my guests! Just tell your friend to focus on the FUN she had all night long
2006-11-07 23:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by TP 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no problem at all that the bride was tipsy at her wedding reception. A number of my close friends have been the same way. With all the alcohol that is served at receptions I'm sure more brides are tipsy than those that aren't.
2006-11-08 13:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by stephanne1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK, she had the right, she was the Bride, lots of brides get tipsy, its quiet normal, its a time to celebrate and that's what she did. Good for her. Tell to think about for one more day, then its time to move on and think about all the good things that are going to happen now she is married. I bet no on else is thinking about it.
So why should she.
2006-11-08 16:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only does this happen to many brides, but also their husbands and both sets of parents (if they drink)...I have done quite a few weddings where the bride (and the bride's mother) were so drunk that they couldn't even make it to their rooms without assistance.
Everyone gets caught up in the moment and sometimes the celebrating can get a little out of control (one of my brides decided she was going to get up and dance on a table!!)...it isn't just your friend who does it...she has nothing to worry about!
2006-11-08 09:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know a bride who was so drunk she puked at her reception. Your friend didn't get anywhere near that, so I don't think she has anything to worry about. Most of my friends who are married actually went into the reception planning to get drunk. I plan to drink enough to get tipsy, but not drunk.
She didn't do anything wrong, and no one else is still thinking about it. I think she needs to try and just forget it.
2006-11-08 12:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the last weddings I attended wound up with the bride (a total head case BTW) dead drunk face down in the parking lot....not really cool. She woke up in time puke in the bushes wipe her face off and go back into the reception. Marriage has seemed to work so far though.
2006-11-08 08:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's lovely that she was able to let herself go and really enjoy her wedding day! So many brides are so nervous that they become almost a completely different person than the one you knew! Being all nicey nicey....small talk conversation etc. She wasn't rude, she didn't offend anyone....she had a good time and if you can't have a good time at your own wedding, then where can you?
I hope this helps her to get things in perspective!
2006-11-08 07:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I got a little tipsy at my wedding. And I was embarrassed about it. After all of the stress of planning and the actual stress of the day, I was ready to unwind. I of course waited until my elder relatives had already left and it was only our close friends and family. I don't see anything wrong with it. It is your day and you should enjoy it anyway that you like.
2006-11-08 11:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by KC 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every wedding I have been to the bride and groom were both tispy at the end of the night. I say it is no big deal.
2006-11-08 09:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. For my own wedding I had maybe 1 glass of wine the entire time. I wanted to remember the day fully and enjoy it completely. Brides that do that are only hurting themselves.
2006-11-08 08:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋