though it was a decent work, i was forced to resign and now, he hurts me physically everytime he remember that i lied. he don't want to let go of me either. I'm so depressed. pls help
2006-11-07 23:06:35 · 16 answers · asked by akira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it happens to me too and he even tease me my boss have something to do with me. later, he got to know his baby can't do anything stupid as well as i don't think, he can live me for any other man.
you will be seriously depressed because you do love him so much and i don't think u would like to loose him because he is so dear to you. i don't think he will leave u for any man.
my dear, give him sometime for him to calm down and tell him how you feel by sending him a text and apologise to him sincerely.
is not easy but it will be well. goodluck.
2006-11-07 23:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you not telling him you were working is the problem..This guy sounds like a STUPID SOB..physcially hurts you! DON'T BE STUPID or IGNORANT YOURSELF..DUMP THE DIRT BAG. It is obvious he has a real mental problem and I feel safe in saying it will get worse. Why are you still with him? For your own safety and pc. of mind get away from this guy as soon as you humanly possibly can..If you need help talk to your family, clergy, Doctor, and even the Police and if the locals won't help call the State Police and tell them..No human being should be abused for any reason whatsoever! As far as you working you should it is good for you, your mind, self-esteem, character and integrity..You go girl and don't look back..Good Luck..(from a guys in the northeast)
2006-11-08 07:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by flashrtp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest police station and report that he's hurt you, file an abuse charge against him before it's to late. What the heck is wrong with you lady, to let this happen. Stop it now, get out of the picture.
2006-11-08 07:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have lied, but he should not be hitting your either. Why would you be with someone who 'hurts you physically', you need to leave him and find a new man
2006-11-08 07:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rossco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly physically abuses you then when he is sleeping step on his balls really really hard and have a frying pan in your other hand and whack him across the head with it, when he regains conciousness do it again, I bet you he won't remember to much after that and he will be absolutely fine with you leaving, or call the cops with pictures and proof of abuse, one way or another you need to do something
2006-11-08 07:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Male chauvinist. U shud have stuck to ur job coz that makes u independent. If i were u, i wud leave him. No one going to make me chose from my identity and a men. Job, self respect is ur own identity. Go and regain that. If a man does that to it then he's nt worth you.
2006-11-08 07:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what type of bf u have ?who doesnt care 4 his gf
it was just a small lie
dont worry evrything wil b fine if ur bf loves u truly
or dont talk to him,or ignore him than he wil b al right
just show some attitutde yaar
2006-11-08 07:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call police. He can't decide wheter you will work or not. Stand for your rights don't be depressed. He has no right to be your boy friend. Dump him.
2006-11-08 07:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT???? you letting a guy puts his hands on you?
Get out quick girl, there is NO reason for physical violence EVER!
Don't you love yourself at all?
GET OUT NOW!
2006-11-08 07:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dahlia O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police if he is hurting you physically. Leave him immediately.
2006-11-08 07:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Vas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋