Why does she not like having her picture taken with me! ?

Question

I am a guy in love with a woman who wants to keep me as a close friend and does not want to make the transition in case anything goes wrong and she loses the friendship that we have, she is an attractive woman and I am considered to be an attractive guy and lots of friends say we look perfect together...we are very close and go out for meals and she cooks dinners for me and we also go out to the theatre etc together etc but nothing romantic ever occurs...whenever we are in a social setting and photos are taken she does not really like her picture taken although she is extremely attractive...she always looks at the ensuing pics and any pics of her with anyone else she says are nice and wants a copy but any of just the two of us together she says are horrible and wants them deleted which although I have not said anything does hurt me as I just do not understand why she says this ?

Answer 1

You ask for the picture, tell her you want something to remember the two of you together because you both look so good together, see what she says.
Some people think they look ugly in pictures, no matter who thinks they look good, they just don't like themselves in pictures. Learn to live with it, don't make a big deal out of it.

Answer 2

Woah!...being in love with a woman who sees you as a close friend!...VERY DANGEROUS GROUND!

You are in love with who is a supposed good friend. I think you should respect her feelings towards you. You may be letting off the vibes of the different sort to her and she may be feeling a little insecure and unsure and probably embarrassed.
I personally believe that she's not sure about the whole you and her relationship.

Good or best friends of the opposite sex doesn't always work unfortunately... if I was in your situation I would ask her what the issue with her is and if she doesn't tell you then....you are not truly good friends are you???

And a chance of a relationship may be almost out the window eh???

Listen... I wish you all the best you sound like a normal decent bloke.

Take care.

Answer 3

she's trying to keep a distance from you and stop you building up the relationship too much in your head. she doesn't want to be a couple with you..it's a polite way of telling others you are not a couple..sounds like you can't be just friends though and you are going to get really hurt unless you move on.

Answer 4

it sounds as though she is trying to deny her true feelings for you maybe it really does scare her that much to lose her friendship with you. sit down and talk it through with her emphasising the fact that a proper relationship will in no way jeopardise your friendship. good luck

Answer 5

I can understand you being hurt! Give her time, perhaps she is not ready to jump into a serious relationship at the moment. Carry on being a good fiend to her and Good luck! :D

Answer 6

I don't like having my photo taken, and i'm not a minger.... just incredibly un photogenic, so maybe she just doesn't like photo's of herself!
Maybe she thinks it's too "couply" and doesn't want to give you the wrong idea about having photos of just the two of you. Give her time and re-assurance.. I'm sure it will work out.

Answer 7

I hate having my photo took.In honesty I would move on its pretty
clear she does not feel the same way about you.Goodluck in the future

Answer 8

She's got issues. Perhaps she was hurt in the past. You need to talk to her, tell her how you feel, see how it goes. Perhaps you will have to look elsewhere for love. Good luck.

Answer 9

i actually think she likes you but she doesn't wanna lose the friendship. i guess you have to try and win her over a little. the photographs she probably thinks of the two of you together when she sees them.

Answer 10

She doesn't want any evidence of how you two look as a couple. If it hurts your feelings you should tell her.