my bf is so moody you'd think he had PMT :P i dont know what's up, i try and comfort him, he says there's nothing i can do. he's just gonna be depressed. He is upset when i'm happy without him, he brings both of us down over silly things, and wont stop till i'm crying. He wants me to live with him, get married, have kids ASAP, he says he's ready. i am ready too kinda but with all the ups and downs lately, i'm more unsure. i wanna get back to how things were but he says we cant go any further without taking the next step. the last couple of days have been amazing, really loving, passionate, it's good to hear him laugh. but i know soon he'll be crying again, sometimes he burst into tears just saying 'i love you. night baby'. i dont know what to do.
2006-11-07 22:53:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love that he cares so much, but i dont know how much more i can take. he blamed me for not being there while his Grandma is sick, saying she 'only dies once', he gets upset when i dont answer the phone. lots of things ALL the time
2006-11-07 22:56:50 · update #1
He's letting you know right up front what life with him would be like.So you would be going into this marriage with your eyes wide open.Not my cup of tea but to each his own.
2006-11-07 23:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to see a dr. Sounds to me like there's a problem. And don't assume that just because it's good some of the time, that you will be able to make it work if you're married. IF he will see the dr. then stick with it, if he refuses, then get out of this relationship that is affecting your emotional wellbeing!
2006-11-08 07:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your boy is battling something pretty dark inside himself....would it be worth him talking someone that isnt part of the partnership? It might help.....
2006-11-08 06:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋