I'm in love with a boy 1year. we are not dating, but we had a firstdate after a text him that I'm love in him. we've met eachother and we made a deal that we should have a seconddate. but he didn't call me. that was 8 mounths ago. At the end of summer we met at MIRC. we had a chat and he asked me if he had a chance with my best friend. I told him that she is busy and I didn't lie. that was a shock for me. now at school I'm noticing that he look at me sometimes. also and my friends telling me the same. what is your thinking about this?
2006-11-07 22:39:51 · 13 answers · asked by tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a sticky situation. Believe me I know how it feels to be in love with someone who doesn't have the same feelings for you. It breaks your heart. And if you are faced with rejection again it will hurt you all over again. Ask your friends to talk to him and see what his feelings for you really are. Maybe his glances at you means he just wants to be friends. It would be much easier to hear the truth from one of your girlfriends, but whatever you do don't get your hopes up. You don't want to set yourself up for a fall.
Good Luck!
2006-11-07 22:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Triquetra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two advice pieces:
1. Don't even think about him if you believe he is being really insensitive and all that. You don't deserve someone who would cheat on you the first chance he gets.
2. If he's doing it to get attention, I'd say ditch him. What sort of a girl wants a guy who wants her to be jealous in order to keep her on her toes?
2006-11-08 06:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he is using you to try to get to your friend. You would do well to consider kicking this guy to the curb. He's not right for you.
Life is too short to deal with manipulative people. Go out and find a guy that is going to love you, for you.
2006-11-08 06:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is confused. Teen boys are usually confused. Text him if he texts you back than ask him if he wants to hang out. If he doesn;t text back than he is probably not interested.
2006-11-08 06:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviuosly does like you but it aint sure or maybe he was testing you to see if you like him still after 8 months!!
2006-11-08 06:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_Party_Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is using you. go out with another block show him you are popular and find better than him.
you could hire some really good looking guy hehe
2006-11-08 06:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgot and ignore him . He can't get the girl he wants so he picked you . I hate guys like that .
2006-11-08 06:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually its becoming difficult for him to decide who to choose, and he also wants to see ur reactions (i.e what u think about him)
so be positive and if u really like him give him a chance
2006-11-08 06:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just wants your friend, but since he didn't get her, he'll satisfy with you...Let him go, girl...The guy's a bastard.
2006-11-08 06:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
biggest day of bore questions
2006-11-08 06:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋