If you do not tell Nasreen, you may regret if for a very long time.
Perhaps you delay because you are afraid of rejection. That is natural.
How do you know that Nasreen does not feel the same as you?
Maybe she loves you.
Judging by your names "Veda" and "Nasreen", I think you are in Bangladesh or India. If that is true, then Nasreen is bound by many cultural traditions.
As a girl, she cannot openly display her secret affection for you. It is up to you as the boy to gently and respectfully pursue her.
Most often, young girls are attracted to boys who like them. This is also natural.
It would be unseemly to openly declare your love to her. Be respectful. Honor tradtitions. Tell her politely and slowly over time. Do not hurry. Let her enjoy the experience.
You may begin by telling her little things like, "I think about you often".
Tell her she is pretty. Compliment her on the beauty of her face, eyes, and hair. Tell her she looks lovely. Notice her pretty clothes. When she accomplishes something in school, you should be first to recognize it and praise her. Pay attention to her. She is a girl and will respond to your attention.
Do not be too forward. Do not be too fast. Do not embarrass or confuse her.
Pay polite and cheerful attention to her for 2 weeks. If she does not respond favorably, then back away. Politely withdraw your attention. Be unavailable to her. Remain polite, but always avoid her. Do not be rude or unkind. It may be difficult for you, but do it anyway. Do not display anger. Be indifferent.
After a few days, she will sincerely miss your attention and friendship. She will approach you to ask if something is wrong. Be nice.
Do you have an older brother? Ask him what to do. Ask your father. Maybe he will give advice. Ask your cousin or uncle or good friend. They will help you.
NEVER BE IN A HURRY.
NEVER CHASE HER.
TAKE YOUR TIME.
Good luck
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2006-11-07 23:08:17
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answered by Anonymous
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It doesn't have to be spectacular...........just sincere. Tell her that you love her and miss her when you are away from her, and think of her all the time and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her (if marriage is on your mind) and that you feel ever so happy when you are with her and cannot imagine your life without her.
2006-11-07 23:08:30
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answered by lildragonlexi 4
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Call her and tell her.
Meet her and tell her
Send an email or sms
Send a card with a bouquet of flowers
Or tell her friend abt it.
Choose ur option.
2006-11-07 23:06:58
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answered by Saphire 3
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Just speak up and tell her how you feel...if she feels the same, she wil appreciate that you have told her, and otherwise why would you want to put enegy, time, and emotion into a relationship that doesn't even exist?
2006-11-07 22:39:50
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answered by GodsGrl4Real 3
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Just call her up or when you see her tell her. Or you can make it romantic take her out to dinner or take her somewhere special and tell her.
2006-11-07 22:41:04
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answered by kitten 3
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call her and tell her.
write a email to her and tell her.
send a sms to her and convey her.
meet her in person with a good gift and tell her.
2006-11-07 22:38:57
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answered by Guru 3
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Simple propose to her.
2006-11-08 08:07:17
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answered by . 6
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well tell her that you love her but what if she doesnt love you?
hummm better to be sure that its mutual first then admit it .
2006-11-07 22:41:30
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answered by Creative 2
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hu tell her
2006-11-08 01:00:12
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answered by john 5
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