simply my boyfriend of one year long, does not care about me, stranger people care more than he does. I try to break with him, he comes back and asks me to come back.
given me excuses all the times. he keeps calling me,making me weaker to come back again to him. then we fight again argue. and i decide thats it. then he comes again.
its been on and off for last few months. i am fed up. what do you think i should do.
The problem I slept with him and lost my verg* which is not acceptable to do that before marriage in my culture or religion.
I regret that so much, but what can I do, it happened, I was wrong.
if I meet another guy, what I am gona tell him, i am scared to love or marry again.
my current boyfriend keeps reminding me of what we did, and keeps saying stay with me. but I am not happy to do that, he is bad only wants sex most of the times and does not care much about my feelings.
I am stuck.. what u think :'(
2006-11-07 22:30:40 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him or stop having sex with him then he will dump you if he only wants you for sex.
you did what you shouldnt do and you are not the only one doing that ,dont make ur future a hell by staying with him if he doesnt care for you.....say NO .as simple as this.
2006-11-07 22:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Creative 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you need to get some self confidence, next time you tell him its over, do it with conviction and dont go back on your word, it only shows your lack of belief in yourself and weak determination, if you continue to return to him through fear.
You will eventually find someone that will love you as you are, not all men are traditional culturally, think carefully and have some time alone before getting involved with anyone else again.
2006-11-07 22:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is trying to make use of you and he never loved you.Love is not sex its a only a part of that.Relationship can be maintained if care,love,trust and adjustments.This guy only wants your body.Stay away from him , even he says he'll do something dangerous.And for marriage,its not necessary for a woman to lose her verg* through sex only..... you are trying make yourself stuck in that
2006-11-07 23:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by lini a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be one hundred reason this is why speaking is so substantial in relationships. he's obvsioly feeling very mushy with this situation, yet you need to no longer ought to go through in silence like this. do no longer provide in because of the fact he feels offended and would not prefer to deal. this is having a severe effect on you and could be dealt with head on. human beings bypass off intercourse now and back and who is familiar with the clarification because of the fact of this you need to talk. do no longer backpedal for concern of frightening him or offending him. he's ignoring your thoughts so quit spending a lot time irritating approximately his.
2016-10-15 12:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to get ruff with him. Tell him it is over and don't come back. If he does call the cops to him' put him in jail for stalking and let him stay there. Look him in the eyes and tell him you do not love him. That should do it.
2006-11-07 22:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to fight with someone is a healthy relationship to not fight and just agree on everything that person says is not healthy.because then you don't have much of a say in your life. tell him how you feel and how he feels then go from there.
2006-11-07 23:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only stuck if you allow it. A person can do no more to you than you allow them to. It is obvious he is no good. Stand up for yourself and do better. You deserve better.
2006-11-07 22:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run parallel for some time. He would get a clue and move off.
2006-11-08 00:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by rash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him just be honest and tell him your feelings for him has changed. You deserve to be happy. Believe me it is better than being with someone that you don't want to be with.
2006-11-07 22:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an other guy and you will never go back to him even if he comes to you.. understand this you go back to him because you need a guy not because he is the only guy left on earth...
and about virginity, no sensible guy will bother about it..
2006-11-07 22:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋