I love one guy but also like and care about an old friend..(we were never together) My BF says he doesn't want meto talk to my old friend because knows how I feel...I keep trying to contact the old friend to make sure he understands why I can talk to him anymore (he also knows I care more than I should.. but he still refuses to answer me so am hurt about this..what should I do?
2006-11-07 22:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to sit down and sort your head out, this isnt fair on you BF. If I thought that my BF could have feelings for some other girl then I dont think I could be with him. I dont think you should be in a relationship unless you are 100% commited to the person and the relationship. I think you dont really know what you want at the minute. Maybe you and your BF should take a break so you can think about things and figure out what it is you really want.
If on the other hand you just want to remain friends with the other bloke and have no other kind of feelins for him well thats a different story. Just because you have a BF doesnt mean you cant have male friends. But to me it sounds like you have deeper feelins for this other bloke than just the kind of feelins you would have for a friend
2006-11-07 22:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend doesn't mean you cant talk to any guys i think you should have a talk with your bf and let him know that he is just that a friend im sure he has females friends too
2006-11-07 22:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the old friend returned your calls/messages I would say you need to choose between the 2. But if your old friend doesn't return your calls then I'd say hold onto the one you have and let the other one go.
2006-11-07 22:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are friends and sometimes more importent than anything else! if ur friend doesnt answer when u try to contact him maybe he doesnt have the same feelings for u or he doesnt wanna be in the way of ur BF and u
2006-11-07 22:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tiny T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping!!!
Try to find a new BF!!!
If he's jealous while you're not yet married... he will be more jealous when you get married!! Try to find a real person with an understanding heart!!!
2006-11-07 22:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he refuse to answer. you dont need an answer for stopping to talk to him
2006-11-07 22:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess that old fiend loves you and got a bit jealous or you hurt his feelings ..anyway choose one of them ....its my opinion.
2006-11-07 22:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Creative 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he refuses to answer you it could be he has no feeling towards you.
2006-11-07 22:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋