I went on a date I thought was really good. We flirted a lot and had great conversation from the minute we saw eachother. We went to a cafe and then saw a movie at his place. He Is Shy!! When I left I gave him a hug (2 mississippi secs) , and then he hugged me really tight (3mississippi secs) and we said goodnight. I had already let go and he was still hugging me kind of deal. He told me to call if i got lost, of course I didn't. Anyways my friend asked how our date was. He said good and didn't expand anymore. The day after our date I msg'ed him on msn saying i had a good time-advice from my friend.... he was going out so we didn't talk long... he didn't even say bi. He hasn't talked to me since that convo on sat and now it is wed. Also whenever we chatted on msn bf the date i initiated the convo's because he is shhy and would tell my friend she never says hi. I did my part by telling him i had a good time. Should I wait to c if he tries to talk to me?
2006-11-07 22:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or should i initiate another convo? :S
2006-11-07 22:14:07 · update #1
This guy was just testing the water. Move on. If this guy happens to call sometime and wants to go out that's up to you' If he doesn't don't sweat it. Go to the next one.
2006-11-07 22:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him alot but the thing is, he is not reciprocating the way you expect or want him to. Stop expecting from him and stop making excuses for him (that he is shy). Move on, girl. But learn something about what happened. That some men may not be comfortable if they feel they are the prey and the women are the predator. That some men do have self-control, believe or not. Let him be. Let him deal with his own "problem". There are alot of fishes in the ocean. And without meaning to be a moralist, I would want to say that we, girls, doesn't have to flirt to get attention. We tend to attract the wrong guys that way. Get to know them first and know them well before even elevating ur relationship to the next level. Girls should attract the cream of the crop before choosing the most Mr Right.
2006-11-07 22:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin saver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a nice guy !! move on !! but make sure tat he gets a lil more open with u !! because u dont want to b stuck with a guy hu has no back bone !!
i guess its just tat he is shy cos u hav met only once !
mayb if he got to noe u he may open up !
dont lose out on him !
tc bye
2006-11-07 22:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-11-07 22:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the first ingredient he reported about "i purely acted the way i did because you imagine so" it means that he purely acts the way u imagine hes performing and hes not attempting to flee something hes purely being himself because if he save putting forward "thats me" thats his particular word that he makes use of to respond to question even as he may not favor to respond to or he purely doesnt favor to. something like that
2016-11-28 22:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ignore him for a couple of days and if he really likes you he would get over the shyness and talk toyou.
2006-11-07 22:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you must wait ,if hes still interested in you ,he will surely contact you ,men dont like demanding or needy girls ,dont show him too much interest but if he contacts you ,be very nice as you are.
2006-11-07 22:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Creative 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him time maybe he just need to get use to you so baby girl give him time
with love
lady T
2006-11-07 22:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by tiffanykatende2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained....go for it. he may need that little extra nudge from you...Good luck :D
2006-11-07 22:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No guts, no glory, what's to hurt be it?
2006-11-07 22:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋