We are getting close again Do you think its a bad idea to go back????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 22:05:26 · 18 answers · asked by Geordie Steve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it...have some fun.
2006-11-07 22:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on why you split in the first place babe. If you think about it, if it was gonna work out, you's would still be together now. Trust me, I was with a fella for 8 years, split for a year and we're still good friends. But no matter how close we are, I would never dream of getting back with him cos the problems we had at first would come back again.
I say, stay friends but thats all. You'll find your perfect girl babe. Good Luck x x x
2006-11-07 22:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by I-Love-My-Boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is an ex for a reason - have a think about the reason she is an ex and work out whether that would have changed with age and maturity. You need to think about why are you thinking of getting close again, are you lonely or something like that?
M x
2006-11-07 22:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If 2 yrs wasn't long enuff to see that you are incompatible then sure, try it again. I guess hind sight isn't always 20/20. My wife and I were married for 5 yrs. As much as I love her and remember the good times, I can't deny that it hurt when she left. I would never give here a chance to finish me off. But then I don't know why you broke up or who broke up......
2006-11-07 22:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? If it was a bad breakup and you think that the cause of the last breakup will affect a new relationship with her, then you shouldn't.
However, if it wasn't a bad breakup and that you both feel you can work on a positive relationship with each other, then go for it.
2006-11-07 22:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all good practice and you could discuss the reasons why you broke up and still feel attracted to each other. It might remind one or the other of you why you broke up in the first place and whether it was worth it. Remember, jaw, jaw is better than war, war
2006-11-07 22:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by checkmate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you split up the first time. As long as you have worked out all the kinks then why does there need to be a problem.>
2006-11-07 22:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for the first time move on everyone should go there on way very bad idea if it dint work the first time move on
2006-11-07 22:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, go back with her if its what you both want, my wife and i seperated in december last year although we have stayed close and kept in conact with each other i would go back with her tomorrow givern the chance
2006-11-07 22:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel close to her again I would give it a try - good luck.
2006-11-07 22:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a bad idea, you have both had time apart to learn from your mistakes and will take a wiser more mature approach this time. (hopefully)
2006-11-07 22:16:24 · answer #11 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋