Will she cry rape.......................?

Question

One of my best mate's has slept twice with this girl that he met in the club a couple months ago.
He has never liked her, but she has always like him. Before he slept with her he told her that he didn't want a relationship & was only after sex. She still met up with him & twice slept with him at her house.

A couple weeks ago he told her that he only wanted to be friends because she kept pestering him with texts & phone calls. Since then she has told her friends that he is her boyfriend (lie). She has also said that she slept with a bloke last weekend & has been seeing her ex for the whole time. Since then she has said she made this up.
Now she is telling him that she is pregnant & he is the only lad that she has slept with recently.
He's 95% sure she is making it up. He has asked her to have pregnancy test & show him the results.

How does he deal with this because he is worried that next, she will crp rape?

1) He is 24. She is 22.

2) Bit harsh saying it's his fault for sleeping with her. Most blokes would have said "yeah I want a relationship, slept with her & then told her he doesn't want a relationship.
At least he was honest with her.

Answer 1

You need to be carefull with this girl.. she sounds like she is one of those that will cry wolf and people listen to her... although once people know what she is like she will be the one left on her own with no friends...

I suggest you make sure that no more contact is made with this girl... txt her and say that if she continues to tell people that she is pregnant and doesnt wish to prove this by ways of a pregnancy test!! that you will get her for slander!!!

Good Luck... She sounds like a right physco!!!

Answer 2

If he's genuinely worried, he has to act quickly. I would suggest he invites her for a cosey chat, to discuss "the situation". During the chat, he should fondly talk about their sleeping together and get her to say that she enjoyed it and didn't regret it. At the same time as being able to tell her that it was good, but now it's over, he should be able to get her to pretty much state that she was a consentling party in the act of having sex with him. Hopefully - as a bonus, she will agree the exact dates they slept together - should there be a real pregnancy and he may not be the father.

Of course, what she will not know is that the entire conversation will be video recorded. Might come in handy somewhere down the line... All he has to do is keep his cool, no matter how irrational she gets.

Answer 3

let me start by saying ravina g is wrong their is no test to prove rape.
i am a rape support worker and people seem to believe rape happens in violent situations every time, well it doesn't you could be already having consensual sex when she changes her mind and asks you to stop. if you don't, that's also rape.

this girl is desperate for love, so desperate she doing and saying anything to get your freind into a relationship.
although he told her it wouldn't happen she is clinging to the emotional closeness of the sex.

I'm sure if she did tell the police your freind raped her she will tell the truth when she realises how serious the accusation is and that your friend can be sent to prison if found guilty, which i doubt because she has no evidence,. court procedures rely heavily on evidence.

i think he needs to talk to her, getting a test done is the obvious thing to do but he needs to tell her if he knew how insecure she is he never would have slept with her because she's hurting so much and that's not what he wanted.
he needs to be firm but calm and aware of her mental state.
good luck, i hope he realises he can't use women just for sex and that she finds what she's needing.

Answer 4

This girl sounds like a habitual liar, with some dependency issues and an unhealthy infatuation with your mate.

The test for pregancy is a good move and even a further test, should she be pregnant, to establish who the father is.

Will she cry rape? Who knows, this girl seems capable of doin some decietful stuff, but should she take that route, your friend has prenty of ammo for his defence (such as you and others' accounts of this bird's behaviour, as well as the texts and messages she's been leaving him).

She'll be exposed if she takes it further, and no sane bloke will go near her again.

Answer 5

Women...sorry...little grils like that are trouble.

My mate hooked up with this girl, she well fanced him, couldn't keep away all night, so when he was really drunk she took him out side and tried to have sex - he was too drunk.

But in the process someone walked round the corner to find him, and found this girl trying so hard to get sex with no luck. He was drunk as well, so she told my mate to bugger off and started giving the second person head - propa whore!

Anyway… when they ‘finished’ they both – man 1 and man 2 – offered to walk her to a cab station, but when they passed their mates man 2 told the ‘tale’ of what just happened.

Loads of people took the mick and she ran away back to the pub – she cried rape.

Turn out the only reason the ‘incident’ went to court was that the police found she did have intercourse that night – even tho they both said they never actually had sex with her.

Turns out she had sex with another 3rd random person that nigh – didn’t match either of their DNA -the case got thrown out of court.

Anyway, after a few months we found out who she really was – she lived across the street to someone I knew. When she could see him in his room at night she would open the curtains, stand right next to the window, face his house and give him a strip show – crazy!!

Anyway – stay away from random people like that, they’re trouble.

Answer 6

Hopefully your friend has learnt his lesson, and will be less of a slag next time! I doubt she will cry rape though. You'll probably find she is the local lay, with a reputation to boot, so she wouldn't dare. If she does, get some info from the people that hang out the same clubs as she does. Use that ammo against her! And tell him to be more careful next time (if there is indeed a "friend") Tell "him" good luck and heres hoping she's not preggers! (not that it would make a diff. He can support the child without having to marry her!)

Answer 7

The poor guy, see this is why guys are not supposed to get with girls they are not interested in and especially girls that are interested in them. He led her on and he has to realise that but he needs to get away from this girl. To stop any contact with her because each txt reply is giving her false hope and more fuel to keep making up stuff and accusing him of more serious things. The girl is a compulsive liar and what she is doing to your friend is unacceptable. He needs to talk to some authoritative figure and tell them the exact story. Tell him good luck

Answer 8

he needs to be strong and you as his friend can help by standing by him. from what you've said she sounds like a silly little immature kid. If she is pregnant get your friend to act as if he wants it but under no circumstances does he want her. This would be very sad for the baby the only reason her mother wanted it was to trap a man. I have seen this before so many times and unfortunately your friend slept with the wrong girl and they RULE the world.

Answer 9

Sounds like the girl is delusional and has some real self esteem issues.

Suggest he gets confirmation of her pregnancy, and if true and she wants to have it he should request a DNA test to confirm paternity. If either of these turn out false, he should change his number and give her a wide berth - if not then he's got to deal with the situation responsibly.

Answer 10

Jesus Christ poor bugger. If the pregnancy test comes back negative (which it hopefull will) he should run for the hills. If its positive he should have a DNA test when it is born to be sure its his and in the mean time stay as far away from the psycho as possible