2006-11-07 21:23:25 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you loved her you wouldnt cheat...simple
2006-11-07 21:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by pinky perky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop cheating on your gf. That is extremely disrespectful. You cannot love her and be cheating on her. It just doesn't work that way. You need to do some serious soul searching as to why you would be unfaithful in any relationship, whether or not you loved the person. I have always followed the philosophy that it is better to break up with a person than resort to cheating on them. It has served me well.
2006-11-07 21:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the 1st thing you should do is stop telling her and yourself that you love her,because fact is people who love the person they are with don't cheat on that person.
The next thing you need to do is figure out what motivates you to do such things.
It is coming from within you...a lack of character and integrity coupled with some serious selfishness.
Maybe have a few sessions with Psychologists and get some help with what part of you is defective and allowing you to be a cheating male.
2006-11-07 21:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes something like this shows you how you truly feel about someone. What you did was completely wrong but if you are truly sorry and really think ye can work then there is no reason for you to hurt your girlfriend by telling her, that said if anyone else knows about it you need to tell her before she hears it from someone else. This could go either way, if ye are strong enough then ye may get through it because she will respect that you told her straight and tell her that now you realise how you really feel about her. Her trust in you will be diminished so if ye are going to work at it you need to rebuild up that trust, no matter what that takes. Good luck.
2006-11-07 22:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you love your Girl friend yet you cheat on her. Who are you fooling besides yourself. You have no Love or respect , no understanding of her feelings, or emotions. You were always a cheat and cheating is what you will always do!!
2006-11-07 21:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't think you love someone. Love is something that you know without a doubt. Stop cheating on her!
2006-11-07 21:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly loved her the thought of losing her would scare you and you wouldnt wanna hurt her by cheating. clearly you dont love her if you cant keep it in ya pants. end it with her and let her find someone who will love her totally and have enough respect for her not to cheat. you dont deserve a girlfriend anyway.
2006-11-07 21:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont idiot! Whats her name? let her know you are a TW@ and she can find someone better!
I got married in september but was with her for three years before! I obviously love her but even before we were married the idea of cheating on her would break my own heart i couldnt deal with the guilt that she could possibly be hurt in such a nasty way.
Trust me you DONT love her!
YID ARMY!
2006-11-07 21:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 3 words: Join a Monastary.
2006-11-07 21:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop cheating thats what u should do saying u love her but u cheat is a poor excuse i dont mean 2 sound harsh by my words but im speaking truth.
2006-11-07 21:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by dani w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love her, you dont respect her and she deserves better than you.
you need to get your life in check and stop the cheating and how about confessing to her about what you have been up to. if you love her you will have to be truthful with her and if your relationship is strong you will be able to work through this but you really need to control yourself and stop the cheating!
2006-11-07 21:28:08 · answer #11 · answered by life_vamp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋