id been chatting to sum1 on the chatroom, they convinced me to meet em i did....turned out to b my boyfriend who id just broken up with, i was shocked as hell to see it was him.
i know we wernt together but wed just broken up the day b4 and we were still talkin...and a decided to meet another bloke...dont know why!
he hates me for it, thinks im a cheat?
answers!
2006-11-07 21:13:51 · 22 answers · asked by SULTANA V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hay he was doing the same thing. & it looks like u fell for each other again. U guys must think if ya'll really over each other.
2006-11-07 21:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,technically,you had both broken up with each other,(the day before),so the relationship was,for all intents and purposes,over between you both-he thought he was going to meet another girl,you thought you were going to meet another boy-i wouldn't call that cheating.However,the episode should show you how very shallow you were with one another in that relationship,to be going off and trying to find new partners almost immediately.Neither of you cheated,but neither of you are ready for long term relationships either-if i was a boy,i wouldn't trust you-if i was a girl,i wouldn't trust him.Let him think what he wants,he has a lot of growing up to do and is very immature.
2006-11-07 21:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you are a cheater and a big one. How can you go and meet some perfect stranger that you met on line after you just broke up with your boyfriend the day before, eh? Shame on you!!
2006-11-07 21:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW you are in abit of a pickle, just talk to your ex and tell him that yu are really sorry. What made you meet someone off a chatroom + dont yuo think it was abit to soon, seen as youhad only just broke up with your boyfriend?? Hope it all works out for you!?! x
2006-11-07 21:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you broke up, then you weren't with him. If you are to be considered a cheat, then it begs the question, who was it you could have possibly cheated on, if he no longer counts? If the answer is "No one", then logically, you didn't cheat on anyone (unless by some cruel joke of a parent, "No One" is a person's proper name, which is a scenario I very much doubt to be likely), and therefore you are not a cheat.
2006-11-07 21:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by koncur 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you that desperate that you need to meet someone off the Internet one day after you finished with your ex? Also not very safe.
2006-11-07 21:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two had broken up there isn't much he can do about it - even if he says anything - you've nothing to loose now - tell him to get over it! He WAS the other person too - try pointing that out to him.
2006-11-07 21:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-28 03:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd split up then it wasn't cheating was it.
If he sought you out in the chat room pretending to be someone else that's just weird.
Ditch him he's a possessive jealous loser.
2006-11-07 21:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by garfet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did he know it was you or was he going to meet what he thought was another girl?
If he knew it was you then he never trusted you coz he felt he needed to catch you out.
If he never know it was you then he's a cheat as well
2006-11-07 21:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋