Following on from my last Q, if a guy invites you back to his place and he wants to take it further than just kissing, is he really interested in you or just out for what he can get?how can you find out if he really interested in you?
2006-11-07 20:58:17 · 27 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him what he wants and if you see him again you know he wants some more.....
2006-11-07 20:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ruthie Baby 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm a guy. If I'm interested in something longer and more meaningful than one night I have a rule that I will not go all the way on the first night, no matter how much I want to, and no matter how much the girl wants to.
I figure that this way there can be no misunderstanding that I am only out for one thing. To date, this has worked well.
If a guy is insistent on going too far, too quickly, it probably means he only wants one thing.
You can usually tell by the conversation if he is interested in getting to know you as a person as well.
Good luck out there. We guys aren't all bastards! There's still some prize catches left to be had!!
2006-11-07 21:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by The Voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Some guys want the action and some want you. What you really need to do is do what you are feeling. If you just want to mess around too then go ahead but if you want to find someone that you really love and it's not this guy think twice before doing anything.
2006-11-07 21:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust your instincts on this one to some extent - the important thing is to really get to know him before going further than a kiss. It's always wise to take your time; don't rush into a heavy physical relationship until you are sure about his intentions.
2006-11-07 21:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can tell is to not sleep with him and see if he continues to call you. Hold out and wait it out. That's the only time you can tell. If he just wants to sleep with you and he's persistent he won't want to hang out very often or talk very long. If you're not sure, hold out and see if he still wants to talk to you for lengthy periods and hang out even though he's not getting any. That's when you'll know. But really, if you have to ask the question, doesn't that kinda mean you already know the answer?
2006-11-07 21:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't lead him on, and You DON"T give in...he thinks he wants you to give it up (yes he's trying to get in your pants) With young guys ALL of them, it's all in the challenge...The longer the challenge....the more the mystery of what your like...and they like you more for it. They don't realize it yet, but once they've got you as a memory, your old news cuz' now they are wondering what some other chick is like... Trust me! I used to think guys would like me better if I put out, so I did a little, and they liked it at the time,...and any time they happened to run into me, but not too many kept calling...it was the ones I DIDN"T get busy with that I drove crazy! They liked me sooo bad! Called all the time,...gifts...(trust me!)
2006-11-07 21:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. How many dates have you guys been on. Heres what to do and i know it works. Go in and get him excited and push it a little further then just get up and leave. If he comes back he wants you.
2006-11-07 21:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Dapengi.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how long have you been going out with him? You can just tell him that you're not ready for it until some time later or when you two are married. If he really likes you, he is likely willing to wait and will respect your decision.
2006-11-07 21:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by misseighteen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and see to know that. some guys do this just for sex and some of them may have true feelings towards you. But not rushing to sex may be a good idea if you are not sure about this. Try to see his condition and tell him to wait until you get this answer.
2006-11-07 21:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants have illicit relation and so also you as you are much interested in asking this Qs. If you are a good one- You Kick him on his back and say Go to hell before he starts the things.
2006-11-07 21:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by PATS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to say. Some guys will only be out to use you. Others will actually love you. The ones who really love you WILL wait.
2006-11-07 21:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by Jou-Jou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋