I broke up with my boyfriend of 3yrs sometime in June. We had a rocky relationship towards the end as he changed quite a bit. We'd argue all the time and would break up for a few days but he'd call constantly saying he wants me back and wants nobody else so and because I loved him, we'd get back together. In June we fought and didn't contact eachother for a few days which never happened b4, he tried 2call days later but I didn't answer and that was it, no more contact. Sad way to end a relationship I know but it was for the best. Now when I see him with other girls it just seems like the same way he was with me at the start but its all false as he changed and became very controlling. Has this happened any of you, that a relationship that was once so strong just ends without even a proper ending and fizzles out? Now its seems like he never cared and is carrying on being "false" with others. I shouldnt even be thinking anymore but in the back of my mind i wonder if he cared at all?
2006-11-07 20:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. And it hurts. The important thing is that you had the power to get away from him.
You might even still love him, we all have people that we love but can't be with.
You are too mature for his drama. And you deserve a good relatonship.
I know how hard it is to see him repeat history.
He probably did care, but not capable of being in a long term relationship. His careing might of been self serving.
Just be glad that you didn't give him thirty years of your life.
2006-11-07 20:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like someone who has developed definite habits when it comes to relationships since he is doing the same thing to others gals he dates.
Generally relationships do not just fizzle out and when we look back we will see that it started to fall apart some time before it finally ended.
As to whether he cared or not is really his issue.You cared for him and give him your heart and that is not a bad thing,so it makes no difference really if he ever cared or not,you did.:)
2006-11-07 20:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life we have different kind of people.Some are born to be dancers,writers,teachers,nuts,gay oops the list is too long.
Sincerely i think this guy is a womaniser.He doesn't care about the feelings of others.He just want to srew around and have fun.You should use those experience and move on and this time maybe you'll be stronger.
Change is inevitable,better make a fresh start.
2006-11-07 22:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by blueyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only he knows if he ever cared. I was in a relationship of two years, she just changed like that and said she did not love me, just cared for... these things just happen girl.
2006-11-07 20:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs to grow up a little he could end up being a great guy. You probably grew past him emotionally. It happens.
2006-11-07 20:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by dakota29575 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he's not for you. Find anyone else to become your boyfriend. Keep busy with your activities and think about anything else except him. Those are better for you.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 20:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋